I blocked my best friend

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My best friend and I have had a few fallings out over the years but always resolved it.

However, I've been having a real rough time lately. I'm always expected to be sympathetic towards her when she has issues, I don't feel like I get much in return.

She invited me over to hers, which I didn't really accept the invitation. I just said I would see as I'm usually in bed early atm as I'm struggling with this pregnancy.

Anyway after a really bad day and being in tears I decided to visit my parents because I don't see them often. I didn't hear from her all day so I didn't message to say I wouldn't be going round, however as stated I never really said I would be going round. It wasn't really on my mind. I just wanted to see my mum.

Anyway, the next day she texts me and I said sorry I went to see my mum. To which she replied 'fuck off'

I don't know why I just saw red and blocked her before I could say anything I might regret. I keep toying with the idea of unblocking and explaining myself. But then again she told me to fuck off. So I did! AIBU?

I can understand her frustration YABVU. A flat yes or no would have been helpful - she'd likely got in special food or drink for if you decided to turn up, not to mention she could have made plans with other people if she knew you definitely weren't coming so you wasted her Friday night. To top that, the reason you said you might not go is because you would be in bed......then you went out anyway because you got a better offer! And didn't even have the manners to tell her you weren't coming. All because you 'wanted your mum' - how old are you?! Are you just that entitled that you think people should just wait around, not doing anything else with their time, and should be thankful if you grace them with your presence? I wouldn't have told you to fuck off but I would have certainly thought it, plus much more.