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My neighbours are scraping ice at 10.30PM

178 replies

Tuvala · 09/12/2022 22:31

light hearted - ish 😆

It’s frozen solid here, road is an ice rink. Neighbours are 60’s and both retired, nice couple but probably retired too soon as both seem frequently bored!
For the past 45 mins they have both been outside in -3 scraping ice off the steps, the car and god knows what else.
I was a bit concerned they had somewhere they needed to get to so popped out to ask if they needed help with anything but no, they aren’t going anywhere!
I’ve since gone to bed and the loud scraping noises are driving me potty.
What on earth are they doing it for?!
Do they want to fall on the ice or get hypothermia? Or are they just trying new ways to drive me round the bend Hmm.
Aaaarghhh!!

OP posts:
ItsJustLittleOldMe · 10/12/2022 04:28

Maybe they are expecting to need to go out in the night? Like their daughter is pregnant and near to going into labour?? So thought it would be best to do it now to be prepared? Only saying this because this is totally something my parents would do and they are the ones we call to have the kids when I’ve gone into labour.

TwoShades1 · 10/12/2022 04:35

Mothership4two · 10/12/2022 00:26

@HermioneKipper

I turn the car on 5/10 mins before i have to go out. Car toasty warm and ice all melted by the time I get in to go. Perfect. Bosh

I understand why why you would do this but it is bad for the environment and probably pretty irritating for your neighbours

Judging by this tread scraping ice is irritating for your neighbours too, as is pouring warm water on it. Maybe you can suggest a non irritating way to de ice cars?

LargeglassofRosePlease · 10/12/2022 04:54

Sprouttreesareamazing · 09/12/2022 22:37

They go dogging on Friday nights...

😁😁😁

SnowlayRoundabout · 10/12/2022 05:50

I also think that it is highly likely that they are aware that if their own postman/Amazon delivery driver/milkman (some people do still have milkmen) etc, slip on their drive/steps/path and hurts themselves, then your neighbour may very well be liable for any damage they have done to themselves on your neighbours property. As they probably don't want to get up at 5.30am to clear it all away then, they are doing it now, and will almost certainly put down a lot of salt or grit to hopefully stop it from refreezing.

That would be quite foolish of them. They couldn't be held liable for natural ice/frost on their path because it's not a condition they have created, and the assumption is that delivery people take their own precautions. On the other hand, by clearing the path they run the risk of leaving a layer of black ice which would be a more serious hazard because it wouldn't be visible, and they could be liable for that.

StringersBell · 10/12/2022 05:58

I put warm water in a ziplock bag and then move it over the windscreen/ windows. Works a treat.

isthismylifenow · 10/12/2022 06:03

You'll need to do an update this morning OP.

Is the ice all back or do they still have clear path.

(my thought was they are expecting an early delivery, guests etc this morning so cleared then salted it). But I do live in the southern hemisphere so it's not something I ever have to put too much thought into.

user1634987 · 10/12/2022 06:07

Maybe they are going stargazing or seeing northern lights, depending on where you live, DH goes out sometimes late at night to dark spots, the cold and ice wouldn't stop him, in fact he was sorting out his cameras yesterday for this

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:10

SnowlayRoundabout · 10/12/2022 05:50

I also think that it is highly likely that they are aware that if their own postman/Amazon delivery driver/milkman (some people do still have milkmen) etc, slip on their drive/steps/path and hurts themselves, then your neighbour may very well be liable for any damage they have done to themselves on your neighbours property. As they probably don't want to get up at 5.30am to clear it all away then, they are doing it now, and will almost certainly put down a lot of salt or grit to hopefully stop it from refreezing.

That would be quite foolish of them. They couldn't be held liable for natural ice/frost on their path because it's not a condition they have created, and the assumption is that delivery people take their own precautions. On the other hand, by clearing the path they run the risk of leaving a layer of black ice which would be a more serious hazard because it wouldn't be visible, and they could be liable for that.

I'd like to see your source for this please, given that gov.uk says this is unlikely.

www.gov.uk/clear-snow-road-path-cycleway

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:11

Er, that link was www.gov.uk/clear-snow-road-path-cycleway

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:11

Seriously, Mumsnet? https://www.gov.uk/clear-snow-road-path-cycleway

user1634987 · 10/12/2022 06:12

It's a £20 fine for idling your car to defrost it

JoanOfAllTrades · 10/12/2022 06:13

Tuvala · 09/12/2022 22:41

Grin I knew some of the responses here would make me laugh.
It just seems so odd! They have nowhere to be and it’s so cold - like PP said it’s only going to all re ice overnight anyway.
A shovel is now out and the road being tackled as a public service, so that’s neighbourly minded - if not slightly bonkers Grin.

This isn’t good. If something (car crashes, someone slips over) was to happen, they would be liable. That’s why the councils always tell people not to do the pavements or roads outside their houses. It’s also a bit concerning that they are out there so late, in such cold weather. I’m assuming they have all their faculties intact?

PAFMO · 10/12/2022 06:18

Keyansier · 09/12/2022 22:33

I couldn't imagine getting worked up over something as small as this tbh

You missed the MN memo where even by continuing to breathe the elderly person next door fucks the MNer off. It's a thing.

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:21

JoanOfAllTrades · 10/12/2022 06:13

This isn’t good. If something (car crashes, someone slips over) was to happen, they would be liable. That’s why the councils always tell people not to do the pavements or roads outside their houses. It’s also a bit concerning that they are out there so late, in such cold weather. I’m assuming they have all their faculties intact?

I'll ask again, unless they're doing it negligently, what makes them liable?

I understood that the reason the councils tell you not to do it is because they don't have liability insurance if YOU fall over while clearing it, so they can't encourage it.

They don't actually give a donkeys.

PAFMO · 10/12/2022 06:21

PurpleWisteria1 · 10/12/2022 00:40

🤣 sorry this just reminded me of the ‘it’s too cold to snow’ phrase that gets trotted out

The actual scientific fact?

TooManyBuns · 10/12/2022 06:22

Who doesn’t enjoy a good night time ice scraping? I do it every winter while blasting Mariah Carey. 🤶🎄

greekalphabet · 10/12/2022 06:42

StringersBell · 10/12/2022 05:58

I put warm water in a ziplock bag and then move it over the windscreen/ windows. Works a treat.

That's a genius idea - will give it a go later

dancingqueen123 · 10/12/2022 06:44

MavisMcMinty · 09/12/2022 23:31

For ages my Mum was disturbed when she went to bed every night by the sound of a metal shovel hitting stony or icy ground in a neighbouring garden, “like someone digging a grave”, she told us.

Turned out to be the ticking of her alarm clock.

🤣

JoanOfAllTrades · 10/12/2022 06:45

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:21

I'll ask again, unless they're doing it negligently, what makes them liable?

I understood that the reason the councils tell you not to do it is because they don't have liability insurance if YOU fall over while clearing it, so they can't encourage it.

They don't actually give a donkeys.

Because most people don’t have public liability insurance, council bylaws are quite strict. If you clear your path for the postman to walk up and he slips and breaks his leg, you’re liable because you didn’t clear the path correctly, which is complete BS but anyway. If you don’t clear the path and he slips and breaks his leg, it’s a force of nature/act of God. Same for the pavement and the roads.

If the postie is walking on the pavement that has been cleared by the council and slips and breaks his leg, the council are liable but will prove by whatever means they have, that they did clear the pavement correctly, by using grit or whatever and thus, they are not liable. When the neighbours have cleared the road, have they cleared it correctly? If not, there could be patched of black ice, which form at night and someone could crash the car, slip, whatever. Because the neighbours cleared the ice, presumably by scraping and perhaps didn’t grit afterwards, they would have to prove that they cleared the pavement and the road exactly as the council would have.

As I said, it’s complete BS, until it’s your car or leg or whatever but it’s in all council bylaws, simply to protect the council from liability for your actions.

dancingqueen123 · 10/12/2022 06:49

StringersBell · 10/12/2022 05:58

I put warm water in a ziplock bag and then move it over the windscreen/ windows. Works a treat.

Oooooo!!!!

Fluffycloudland77 · 10/12/2022 06:50

icegoose · 10/12/2022 03:05

I can start my car while it is locked using the app that comes with the car.
It is a pre-heat function.

Me too. I keep it in the garage though unless it’s on charge.

Butitsnotfunnyisititsserious · 10/12/2022 06:57

Start my car up to scrap the windows, the front has a cover so it's okay, albeit freezing to take off. I do it at 5am Monday to Friday. If the neighbours hear, they hear.

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 06:57

JoanOfAllTrades · 10/12/2022 06:45

Because most people don’t have public liability insurance, council bylaws are quite strict. If you clear your path for the postman to walk up and he slips and breaks his leg, you’re liable because you didn’t clear the path correctly, which is complete BS but anyway. If you don’t clear the path and he slips and breaks his leg, it’s a force of nature/act of God. Same for the pavement and the roads.

If the postie is walking on the pavement that has been cleared by the council and slips and breaks his leg, the council are liable but will prove by whatever means they have, that they did clear the pavement correctly, by using grit or whatever and thus, they are not liable. When the neighbours have cleared the road, have they cleared it correctly? If not, there could be patched of black ice, which form at night and someone could crash the car, slip, whatever. Because the neighbours cleared the ice, presumably by scraping and perhaps didn’t grit afterwards, they would have to prove that they cleared the pavement and the road exactly as the council would have.

As I said, it’s complete BS, until it’s your car or leg or whatever but it’s in all council bylaws, simply to protect the council from liability for your actions.

I'd be interested in reading these byelaws, because that's not what I've been reading on council websites.

The only google results I get are all in Canada.

Chouetted · 10/12/2022 07:00

As an example, this is a quote from Tower Hamlets council.

Will I be held liable if someone falls on a path I have cleared?
There is no law preventing you from clearing snow and ice on the pavement outside your property, pathways to your property or public spaces.
It is very unlikely that you would face any legal liability, as long as you are careful, and use common sense to ensure that you do not make the pavement or pathway clearly more dangerous than before. People using areas affected by snow and ice also have responsibility to be careful themselves.

Believeitornot · 10/12/2022 07:01

Dinoteeth · 10/12/2022 00:08

One issue of pouring water on a windscreen is your risking a frozen puddle for someone to slip on.

Op say nothing more, they'll have some logic in their madness, I'm sure they'll put salt on it to help it melt.

This a million times

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