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to want the prize I won??

463 replies

Dogue · 09/12/2022 07:28

In the grand scheme of things I’m probably being petty, but this has really annoyed me -

our village had a Christmas fair last Saturday. On Monday I had a missed call from a mobile number which turned out to be the organisers of the event. I rang back and she said was ringing to tell me I’d won a prize, but that she was out at the moment so didn’t have details but would ring me back in half an hour to let me know.

I didn’t hear back from her on Monday so I called again on Wednesday (didn’t get a chance on Tuesday) and she said the same again - someone would call me back later with details of what I’d won and how to collect.

by Thursday I still hadn’t heard from them so I texted the number about it. I got the reply: “sorry, all prizes had to be collected by Wednesday. We can give you a bottle of Prosecco as a consolation”

I’m so annoyed that I wasn’t given any opportunity to collect my prize on time. From memory the only thing I think I put my phone number down for was when my 6 year old entered the ‘guess how many sweets in the jar’ so I was really excited to tell him he had won. I’m not really bothered about having a massive jar of jellies in my house, but if that’s what we’ve won then it’s what I want! When I told her this she said she would make sure there’s a consolation prize for him too, but that’s no use really as it means I don’t get the loveliness of telling him his guess was the winner.

obviously there are much bigger things to worry about in the world right now, but it’s a bit shit and terrible organisation right??

OP posts:
PurpleButterflyWings · 09/12/2022 13:46

PMSL at your quoting the law to them. Nice one @Dogue Grin Now you MUST let us know what the prize is and post a photo of it because even though I only noticed this thread 5 minutes ago, I am already massively invested. 😂

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2022 13:47

I am excited by the outcome of this thread.

OP, tell a friend where you’re going, though. It’s still a randomers house and if they will steal sweets from children who knows what other evil things happen behind the front door.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 13:55

What if the new address is a trap? The fair committee are going to shut you down!

"Quote the lotteries and occasional gambling law at ME, would you? Well, I AM The Law - and you won't be needing sweeties anymore where you're going, hun!"

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2022 13:57

I was joking. But do we think the Guess The Sweets was a front for money laundering and the OP is going to get whacked?

I’ve seen Goodfellas, I know about these things.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 13:58

If they will steal sweets from children who knows what other evil things happen behind the front door.

Some things aren't always so black and white, though. Maybe they have stolen sweets from OP's DS, but they're fully intending to 'pay it forward' by offering them to other children?

to want the prize I won??
Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/12/2022 14:00

Distinct possibility Lightside. Hire some muscle to accompany you, OP.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 14:01

I was joking. But do we think the Guess The Sweets was a front for money laundering and the OP is going to get whacked?

I’ve seen Goodfellas, I know about these things.

If OP finds the bitten-off head of a jelly baby or strawberry mouse in her bed, we'll know that things have suddenly got very real.

CatJumperTwat · 09/12/2022 14:05

I wonder if the OP will turn up to find she actually won a child's drum kit, then this will turn into "how do I refuse the prize I won?"

I hope it's the sweets though!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 14:06

I wonder if the OP will turn up to find she actually won a child's drum kit, then this will turn into "how do I refuse the prize I won?"

Somebody else has already suggested that it might be a snare....

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2022 14:07

I wonder if they just give her something mad from around their house.

OP will return with a vase of dusty fake flowers, a jar of marmite and a well-thumbed Dickens novel.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 14:08

The organiser is now furiously going through her 'automatic re-gift' cupboard to find the most horrific item she possibly can for OP's 'prize'!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 14:08

Perfect x-post there!

Improvising · 09/12/2022 14:12

Watching to find out what the prize is ! Xmas Smile

PuppyPerson · 09/12/2022 14:17

OP please can you ask as many questions as possible when you get there so that we can find out what happened! I still think it was a genuine mistake / confusion and hope they own up and explain rather than try to dig themselves into a deeper hole...

stuntbubbles · 09/12/2022 14:22

Ten-minute countdown! OP, are you wired for sound?

Dogue · 09/12/2022 14:22

So! I made sure to give my partner the address I was going to just incase I was murdered. Got there, she opened the door, handed me the jar and shut the door. No small talk, which is suppose is for the best but I really wanted to ask how close our guess was!!

So I am now the proud owner of a big jar of sweets and am possibly the talk of the town 😁

from what I remember it does look like less packed than it was at the fair, so I reckon someone’s had a few. Doesn’t really look anywhere near the 400 we guessed. But I’m so excited to tell my boy! It’s going to make his year 🥰

to want the prize I won??
OP posts:
Slutdrop · 09/12/2022 14:24

😂😂😂

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 09/12/2022 14:24

It’s a great jar.

So glad you weren’t murdered.

PurpleButterflyWings · 09/12/2022 14:25

Awww, I was hoping you'd got a 70" telly tbh Grin BUT enjoy your sweets @Dogue MERRY CHRISTMAS!

healthadvice123 · 09/12/2022 14:25

@Chouetted but they offer to fix they offered OP a consolation for her and something for her son
If the OP has won the sweets and they have been handed out to someone else in error , what else can they do ?
No wonder anywhere struggles to get volunteers it seems simple mistakes cannot ever be made

PurpleButterflyWings · 09/12/2022 14:26

healthadvice123 · 09/12/2022 14:25

@Chouetted but they offer to fix they offered OP a consolation for her and something for her son
If the OP has won the sweets and they have been handed out to someone else in error , what else can they do ?
No wonder anywhere struggles to get volunteers it seems simple mistakes cannot ever be made

🙄

ShirleywasaLady · 09/12/2022 14:26

healthadvice123 · 09/12/2022 14:25

@Chouetted but they offer to fix they offered OP a consolation for her and something for her son
If the OP has won the sweets and they have been handed out to someone else in error , what else can they do ?
No wonder anywhere struggles to get volunteers it seems simple mistakes cannot ever be made

How is 'ringing the prize winner to tell her she's won, not telling her how to claim the prize, then somehow giving it to someone else entirely and telling the prize winner she is now too late to collect it' a 'simple mistake'?!

stuntbubbles · 09/12/2022 14:27

Dogue · 09/12/2022 14:22

So! I made sure to give my partner the address I was going to just incase I was murdered. Got there, she opened the door, handed me the jar and shut the door. No small talk, which is suppose is for the best but I really wanted to ask how close our guess was!!

So I am now the proud owner of a big jar of sweets and am possibly the talk of the town 😁

from what I remember it does look like less packed than it was at the fair, so I reckon someone’s had a few. Doesn’t really look anywhere near the 400 we guessed. But I’m so excited to tell my boy! It’s going to make his year 🥰

Please weigh it when you get home!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 14:27

Great news.

She's a MNer and has seen this thread - I'd bet on it but still be too late to collect my prize before it expired.

BaconMassive · 09/12/2022 14:27

Send a message:

"how come we guessed 400 but there are only 50 sweets in this jar?"