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to want the prize I won??

463 replies

Dogue · 09/12/2022 07:28

In the grand scheme of things I’m probably being petty, but this has really annoyed me -

our village had a Christmas fair last Saturday. On Monday I had a missed call from a mobile number which turned out to be the organisers of the event. I rang back and she said was ringing to tell me I’d won a prize, but that she was out at the moment so didn’t have details but would ring me back in half an hour to let me know.

I didn’t hear back from her on Monday so I called again on Wednesday (didn’t get a chance on Tuesday) and she said the same again - someone would call me back later with details of what I’d won and how to collect.

by Thursday I still hadn’t heard from them so I texted the number about it. I got the reply: “sorry, all prizes had to be collected by Wednesday. We can give you a bottle of Prosecco as a consolation”

I’m so annoyed that I wasn’t given any opportunity to collect my prize on time. From memory the only thing I think I put my phone number down for was when my 6 year old entered the ‘guess how many sweets in the jar’ so I was really excited to tell him he had won. I’m not really bothered about having a massive jar of jellies in my house, but if that’s what we’ve won then it’s what I want! When I told her this she said she would make sure there’s a consolation prize for him too, but that’s no use really as it means I don’t get the loveliness of telling him his guess was the winner.

obviously there are much bigger things to worry about in the world right now, but it’s a bit shit and terrible organisation right??

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WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 12/12/2022 12:30

Without derailing the entire thread…Lebanon in the early 1970s was known as the Paris of the Middle East and by all accounts was a fabulous place to visit.

Ooh, thanks - that I didn't know.

Michiyo · 13/12/2022 00:40

Meanwhile, the world ends.

This is why the huma race is f*cked, people caring about nothing at all like this.

Did-diddly-diddums.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 13/12/2022 00:46

Meanwhile, the world ends.

This is why the huma race is fcked, people caring about nothing at all like this.*

Did-diddly-diddums.

Do you use that one on your own kids as well? Tell them they have a present or a treat coming and then just not bother whether they get it or not? Make promises to 6yo children and just laugh at them when you break them?

I presume Christmas is cancelled in your house, then, until all of the world's problems are completely solved and we can all hold hands and dance together, singing about pretty buttercups and rainbows?

DunkingMyDonuts · 13/12/2022 09:51

Well put @WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll

Why people bother to see a thread, click on it, read the OP and then spend the time posting "there are worst things happening in the world", defies logic

AngelaBrazilNuts · 13/12/2022 10:24

I would be wary about eating them, @Dogue

From the way in which they handed them over to you, it sounds as if they were really pissed off and might have given them to the dog to lick before handing them to you.

Wash the jar and refill it.

Epicstorm · 13/12/2022 11:52

You are definitely not being petty. It’s the principal of the matter.

Catspyjamas17 · 13/12/2022 14:53

But despite all that, it was totally worth it for the pure joy on DS’s face when I told him we’d won!

Brilliant, well done OP. I'd have been so excited to receive those sweets when I was six.

Kjpt140v · 14/12/2022 02:02

Buy him a jar of sweets, tell him it's his prize and how clever he is. For goodness sake you were offered a bottle, what was the prize a trip to the moon?

Kjpt140v · 14/12/2022 02:03

Lord help us. Why not contact CID?

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 14/12/2022 06:32

Lord help us. Why not contact CID?

No need, OP managed to deal admirably with her underhand treatment herself.

It's not a binary option whenever somebody knowingly treats us badly: either bring in the full force of the law or just roll over and take it without a whimper.

Funkyslippers · 14/12/2022 07:59

Michiyo the human race is f*cked? I didn't know that. Do you have a link please?

What a weird attitude to have. Nobody is allowed to be upset about anything, ever, because it's not a life or death situation

DunkingMyDonuts · 14/12/2022 08:02

You can be upset, yes @Funkyslippers but only if you then "contact CID"

Not the usual police, oh no!! It has to be CID no less

😂😂😂

cabbageking · 15/12/2022 12:51

Dogue · 09/12/2022 07:38

Oh ok that is very useful to know! Does that apply even if it was a guessing game rather than a standard raffle?

@rosesinmygarden exactly what I was wondering!!

You don't need a licence for a guessing game.

You don't need a licence for a raffle or tombola if you follow the rules.

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