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to want the prize I won??

463 replies

Dogue · 09/12/2022 07:28

In the grand scheme of things I’m probably being petty, but this has really annoyed me -

our village had a Christmas fair last Saturday. On Monday I had a missed call from a mobile number which turned out to be the organisers of the event. I rang back and she said was ringing to tell me I’d won a prize, but that she was out at the moment so didn’t have details but would ring me back in half an hour to let me know.

I didn’t hear back from her on Monday so I called again on Wednesday (didn’t get a chance on Tuesday) and she said the same again - someone would call me back later with details of what I’d won and how to collect.

by Thursday I still hadn’t heard from them so I texted the number about it. I got the reply: “sorry, all prizes had to be collected by Wednesday. We can give you a bottle of Prosecco as a consolation”

I’m so annoyed that I wasn’t given any opportunity to collect my prize on time. From memory the only thing I think I put my phone number down for was when my 6 year old entered the ‘guess how many sweets in the jar’ so I was really excited to tell him he had won. I’m not really bothered about having a massive jar of jellies in my house, but if that’s what we’ve won then it’s what I want! When I told her this she said she would make sure there’s a consolation prize for him too, but that’s no use really as it means I don’t get the loveliness of telling him his guess was the winner.

obviously there are much bigger things to worry about in the world right now, but it’s a bit shit and terrible organisation right??

OP posts:
Mrseft · 09/12/2022 20:01

PuppyPerson · 09/12/2022 09:05

Maybe Putin's mum was cruelly cheated out of a jar of sweets that was (possibly) rightfully hers when he was a kid by scheming Christmas fair volunteers, and that's why he invaded Ukraine. Because 'principals'. 😐

To be fair, he’s insane enough to do that.

My2pence2day · 09/12/2022 20:03

I think they've lost the prize

WillMellorsHips · 09/12/2022 20:06

and they have spat on every one...

ZorbaTheHoarder · 09/12/2022 20:17

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 18:09

No you get over it. Is this panto??

Stand down cansu , she got her true prize, which you’d know if you RTFT. No need for a fight…

Yep, it's behind you now.

Oh no it isn't!

Callipygion · 09/12/2022 20:18

ExtraOnions · 09/12/2022 07:33

Under the terms of the Lottery Licence they would have to have applied for, to run a raffle (chair of PSA here), they are obliged to give you the prize that you won. There is no time limit …

You don’t have to have a licence unless you’re selling tickets in advance. If it’s on the day and a raffle type thing you don’t need one.

Callipygion · 09/12/2022 20:19

Callipygion · 09/12/2022 20:18

You don’t have to have a licence unless you’re selling tickets in advance. If it’s on the day and a raffle type thing you don’t need one.

Sorry, just saw there are 14 pages and I’m only on page 1. This has probably been said 10,000 times already. Just cancel that cheque.

elfies · 09/12/2022 20:47

I'd love to know how many sweets there were . My guess is 121

Gagaandgag · 09/12/2022 20:52

They just really fancied them themselves and thought you’d just roll over disappear so they could continue munching on them 🤦🏼‍♀️

chesterelly1 · 09/12/2022 20:55

To the pp that was giving tips on putting teeny tiny sweets or huge gobstoppers in the jar to fox everyone you've reminded me of when I was in charge of Guess How Many Balloons in the Car. Having blown up many, many balloons I asked what was happening to the ones I didn't need, fellow committee members all shrugged so I counted them into the pocket in the door before slamming it. My friend who reckoned I'd do something like that guessed about double the average of other guesses and won. Oh, the explaining we had to do - no it wasn't a fix, turns out I'm just predictable.

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 20:56

Tbh I see the price if Sweetie jar/name the Teddy style things as a donation to the charity not something I actually want to win (and would probably be donated onto another charity!)

If everybody did that, they could be passed between charities for years and years! Every time with more grubbymittery added for good measure as somebody counts the sweets for each fete; and as they're loose in the jar, nobody would have a clue of any expiry date. They could be pre-decimal!!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 20:59

Guess How Many Balloons in the Car

The record for number of PEOPLE inside a Mini Cooper was just broken a couple of months ago - 29 people!!! I don't know if they were adults/babies/mixture, mind?!

purser25 · 09/12/2022 21:10

A game like this is not a lottery or raffle but classed as a game of skill no license required especially on the day.

Fink · 09/12/2022 21:46

Dogue · 09/12/2022 16:22

156! 😂 Definitely something fishy going on considering the guess above ours on the sheet was 100. And like someone said here above, it’s very clear they’ve just poured two big bags of sweets in here because the two different types aren’t mixed up at all. I’m almost certain it’s an entirely different jar.

But despite all that, it was totally worth it for the pure joy on DS’s face when I told him we’d won!

Plus you got a nice Kilner jar (or knock off equivalent) into the bargain. I love a good jar.

cabbageking · 09/12/2022 22:25

You don't need a licence for an incidental draw if you follow the requirements to run it in line with the law.. There are still rules to adhere or it becomes illegal.

Redsquirrel5 · 10/12/2022 00:16

So glad you got something for your lad. Maybe not the same one( sounds like it isn't ) but at least he got some.If it was a PTA event I would be inclined to go to the next meeting where they will thrash out the pros and cons of how it went. It might be interesting!

DD won a large fluffy duck once when she was 5. It is the size of a 2yr old. We were up visiting my sisters. We had a 300 mile two train ride home. She called it Lucky Duck, it took up a whole seat and I was a little bit worried I would be ask to pay for it. The Guard quipped did he have his ticket and DD explained that she won it so he let her off. She is often lucky in raffles. I'm not. Lucky Duck is still living here while DD is travelling. I will be glad to hand it over sometime.

ThinkingOfAWittyUsername · 10/12/2022 00:19

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 18:09

No you get over it. Is this panto??

Stand down cansu , she got her true prize, which you’d know if you RTFT. No need for a fight…

Yep, it's behind you now.

😂😂😂😂

ShinyPikachu · 10/12/2022 00:55

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 09/12/2022 20:59

Guess How Many Balloons in the Car

The record for number of PEOPLE inside a Mini Cooper was just broken a couple of months ago - 29 people!!! I don't know if they were adults/babies/mixture, mind?!

It had to be rather bendy adults. You could easily fit a lot more than 29 babies, you just have to slot them in like you're playing Tetris. 

MrsMontyD · 10/12/2022 10:03

DD won a guess how many sweets are in the jar a few years ago, she gave them to DSD and I think the remnants are still in a cupboard somewhere. I've never let her enter the guess the name of the giant Teddy competition for fear of winning.

cabbageking · 10/12/2022 12:15

Just ask them for the list of winning numbers and prizes allocated and where it specifies any time frame on the ticket so they are more accountable next time. Ensure they were not offering reductions for bulk buy tickets and get the name of the person who took responsibility for ensuring the legalities of the draw. Hopefully you can make a point and ensure they are more vigilant and robust next time. People who organise raffles and tombolas and also put them on Facebook and other sites need to know the legal requirements.

SinnerBoy · 10/12/2022 12:16

JoyeuxNarwhal · Yesterday 19:19

Oh blimey, I've been transported back the best part of 40 years just by the title. I won a bottle of whisky fair and square and wasn't allowed to collect it because I was too young. OK I was 7 but I wasn't going to drink it...

Ahah! Exactly the same thing happened to me, at the junior school summer fete, when I was 9. The headmaster gave it to my dad and I asked what he was going to give me and he said a fiver. Weeks later, he still hadn't given it to me and when I kept asking, he said, "You've made so much bloody fuss, I've changed my mind." !!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 10/12/2022 12:27

You could easily fit a lot more than 29 babies, you just have to slot them in like you're playing Tetris.

"This world record attempt proudly sponsored by Social Services" Grin

postcardpuffin · 10/12/2022 12:39

Ahaha this is hilarious - clearly someone got the munchies and pilfered your prize, then had to frantically get some more sweets when you wouldn’t let them get away with it! 😂

Very poor behaviour though, in all seriousness, and giving it to you then shutting the door is incredibly rude. Glad you got something for your DS, but wow, what a bunch of ghastly people “organising” this raffle!!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 10/12/2022 12:45

Ahaha this is hilarious - clearly someone got the munchies and pilfered your prize

You can imagine their way of thinking: "400 sweets - nobody is going to miss 2 or 3, are they; and they'll never actually count them."

Then, '2 or 3, becomes '20 or 30', and then '200 or 300', and then there's the mental process of 'might as well finish off the job' and eventually.... "Ooooops - that's going to be a bit awkward!!"

Fraaahnces · 10/12/2022 13:09

Honestly, this is hilarious! Time to name and shame this idiot. She has taken money fraudulently and been caught out literally with her hand in the jar.

viques · 10/12/2022 13:23

Someone has had the m and m from that jar. Bastards.