I am hugely relieved that I just slipped into the band of people who could retire at 60. Since then I have: nursed my OH through a terminal illness, broken my foot, had a failed hip replacement, had surgery to a slipped disc, and had two cataracts removed. And I am not that old yet! How could I have worked? Who would have nursed my OH?
There is logic in the retirement age rising with rising life expectancy, but it is worth asking what the quality of that longer life is and whether it is compatible with being able to work efficiently and safely.
So many women in their early 60s are struggling to do jobs whilst in pain from arthritis. Just because people live longer it does not mean they are all fit to work.
Many pensioners are of course fighting fit and having a great time - but I doubt if it is the majority. I have seen so many people soldier on till retirement age and then die of some horrible affliction, as happened to my OH.
The challenge of aging people drawing pensions for 30 years is huge and morality suggests that they should not live in poverty. I am sure no-one wants that.
No-one will grasp the nettle on care funding - I had to sell my home in order to pay for OH's care - the basic SS care options were wholly unacceptable - I would go so far as to say appalling. And made me weep - literally.
The challenges of an aging population have never been top of anyone's agenda - just too scary.
I am of course concerned for my AC, but each in their own way has found solutions and they are living good lives - hard-working lives, just as I have had. And bringing up happy children.
People over pension age are not blind to the challenges facing young families and I am sure that, like me, they do all they can to help. I have willingly provided years of free child dare for the GC, even when I was in pain; and I help all I can - paid for holidays for them all this year. Please do not think we do not care. Don't make this a generational battle - it is the result of successive governments refusing to bite the bullet and tackle the needs of an aging population.