Trigger warning
Last night my 18yr old dd was in a drunken state and sobbing. She has been upset all week after a worrying incident that happened the weekend before.
She broke down and admitted she'd been raped. She was out clubbing last weekend and bumped into an old school friend. Then met this other random bloke too who is the same age as me. He said he was having an after party and my dd decided to go back to his with the school friend also. She was very very drunk at the time. She has undiagnosed adhd and takes silly risks and drinks too much which means she makes wrong decisions. We'd also had an argument beforehand so she was upset when going out which didn't help.
So the next morning she calls me from this blokes flat without him knowing. I listened to the call and he was being a bit aggressive in tone and didn't want my dd to leave. She went to the toilet and told me he was in the way of the door and she couldn't leave. She was so drunk she didn't know where she was so I couldn't tell police. I told her to call 999. She eventually managed to get the address and I went immediately to get her. She was still with the school friend too and they had got out after an argument. Dd called 999 after the bloke started shouting at her. On arrival my dd looked terrible. Make up smudged, filthy clothes and her jeans were on inside out. I got her straight in the car and took her home.
An hour later police turned up unannounced and asked if she'd been assaulted. She said no. Apparently he is a known offender. They made sure my dd was safe and well and that was it until last night.
She won't tell police again what happened as its too traumatising for her and she wants to move on and try and forget. How the hell do I help her get over it.