Let me start by saying, I love my in laws, they're a lovely family and we genuinely get on very very well. So this is not a typical mil bashing thread. Also this is my 3rd child so definitely not pfb but happy to be told IABU and just need a sanity check
Ds3 is 10 days old. Last weekend (so he was 4/5 days old) my sister and her family were due to visit. She called me in the morning to say she had a rotten cold and so they wouldn't come as she didn't want to make ds3 unwell. All fine, I said we'd rearrange when she's feeling better
The next day we had dh's family round. Mil and fil showed up with bad colds, coughing and spluttering everywhere all day, then both held ds3 for several hours. (Also worth noting they'd already met ds the day after he was born so it wasn't their first chance to see him)
Now my 10 day old baby has a cold, he's really snotty and struggling to breathe and I feel awful for him. I'm so annoyed at in-laws for coming round when they were so ill but not sure if I'm overreacting or not? I'm not an overly precious mother and always feel it's better for the kids to be exposed to things to build their immunity but ds is so tiny and it's really wound me up that he has to deal with a cold in his first few weeks of life
So I'd like to know how others would feel in this situation