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Mum shoplifting in Tesco

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1000yellowdaisies · 25/11/2022 20:33

Not so much an Aibu but its bothering me.
I was in tesco before, just arrived and was faffing about near the entrance getting a scan as you shop scanner thing.
A lady was leaving the shop and the alarms went off. Security took her to one side and found she was leaving with stuff she hadn't paid for. The security guard and 3 staff from the customer service kiosk went through her push chair and when they found more unpaid for stuff they took her through to the back.
Her child was roughly same age as my youngest.

I feel sorry for her. Yes I know she could be a thieving chancer with enough money but she wasn't nicking luxuries like bottles of booze, it was nappies and calpol from what i saw. What will likely happen to her? She looked so embarrassed.

OP posts:
Beepbeepenergy · 18/04/2023 19:30

Is steal too or the local fruggies round here steal to order anyway
they walked out of our local tesco with £80 worth of toilet roll the otherday
staff said they will do nothing 😳

Blackhammer1 · 19/03/2025 18:24

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PassingStranger · 19/03/2025 18:26

You feel sorry for her jeez.
Stuffs not free.
Perhaps you wouldn't be sympathetic if she stole from you.🙆

Blackhammer1 · 19/03/2025 18:27

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Serencwtch · 19/03/2025 18:35

hay5689 · 25/11/2022 20:47

I don't know where you live but if you can get police to a supermarket for theft then you are very lucky. This is why you see signs upon store entrances saying they operate a civil recovery process.

If it involves a child we have to report to the police.
If it meets the criteria for child exploitation (I don't think the one in OP does) the police have to categorize it as I cat/grade 1 for immediate response (within 20 mins)
In other cases police rarely attend the store itself but the security & loss prevention colleague would have taken her details & asked to see ID this would then be reported online to police.
CCTV is also supplied to the police & stored for recognition & identification (depending on company policy)
Police would assess the report & follow up & would complete a safeguarding referral.

PointsSouth · 19/03/2025 20:49

ZoeCM · 26/11/2022 00:25

I think there are some rather naive posts on this thread! I've seen threads on MN where people have bragged about shoplifting because they simply don't want to pay. I'd imagine most shoplifters are acting out of entitlement, not desperation.

Well. at least you admit that it's all your imagination.

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