To think it’s weird for ex partners to act this way?

[MattHandiv]

5 years since the split, no kids, weren’t married.

A day at a local art exhibition, lunch, shopping, takeaway and a film back at the ex boyfriend’s house. Ex boyfriend dropping of ex girlfriend at 6am in the morning after talking all night.

Obviously more contact needed. Is one of them you or your partner? My first thought would be that they're trying to figure things out re. getting back together.

*context not contact

Definitely more context needed. Do either of these ex's now have a new partner? Are they both single?

The 6am drop off is a bit much. But otherwise it sounds fine.

I fail to see how this is an issue or that it's anyone's business.

So Aquamarine you would be happy with your DP being at an Ex’s house all night until 6am?
You wouldn’t quiz them asking why they had been together all night ‘talking’?

I’m the least envious person ever, have had 2 of DH’s old GF’s stay in the past, he still visits one a couple of times a year, but going on a 24 hr get together would def Make me think.

Not strange, I assume they are back together .

If one or both of them has a new partner this isn't appropriate behaviour.

You've made a lot of assumptions there. OP hasn't said who they are in relation to her or whether they're single.

Agree, because this is a date with spending the night together. It’s no one’s business though unless one or other has a partner

The op hasn't said if one of the ex's involved is their partner or not. They've provided no context whatsoever. I gave my answer based on exactly what they wrote.

The op hasn’t said either are involved with anyone else.

Why are you asking @MattHandiv?

If this is your boy/girlfriend, then you’re allowed to be unhappy, to recognise they’ve crossed a boundary about what you won’t accept, and to end a relationship because of it. You don’t have to feel ‘cool’ or ‘relaxed’ about it.

Nobody's mentioned a DP.

OP has not said whether the up-all-night exes are single or attached elsewhere.

If they are single, it's nobody's business but theirs.
If they are not, OP is being annoyingly coy about detail, who knows why, & will no doubt drip-feed to obtain the responses she wants later.

I would assume that they were considering getting back together, or drifting towards it, because chatting until 6am isnt the norm between exes.

If one of them has a partner this is obviously inappropriate. If they are both single and want to reconcile, crack on.

It’s very odd and inappropriate if one or both of them have a partner but if both are single and have stayed close friends or if they both want to try again then I’d say it’s fine.

Inappropriate if either is in a relationship

Not an issue if both are single

What is the context here?..

That's a date.

Sounds like they're not "ex"

That’s a date; talking all night often means something else

If it is you that stayed at your exes over night and your new partner isnt happy about it, then you need to dump him as he is controlling and insecure.

If it is your partner that has stayed over night at his exes, and you arent happy about it, then you need to dump him as he doesn't respect you and is definitely shagging the ex (get an STI test).

Make that make sense?

I’m seeing the guy in this situation

It's OPs business if its their partner. I wouldn't be OK with this and I don't think many others would.

I don't understand why you need to ask MN about this. It's blindingly obvious that this is inappropriate.