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Pronunciation - would you correct?

104 replies

Dipsydoodlenoodle · 19/11/2022 22:53

I'm aware this isn't the right place to post but I wanted some advice about what you would have done.

We were out with friends a few months ago, they have a 6 year old dd. Friends are foreign. Let's call them Adam and Eve lol. I'm Friends with Adam and have met Eve on several occasions but don't know her well.

Eve says to Dd6 "what does this say"...Dd6 read it perfectly and pronounced it perfectly. Eve corrected dd6 for saying a local place wrong...(Eve pronounced it as it reads, rather than as its said). Obviously as I don't know her well I didn't want to interfere...but would you have corrected her (OK maybe not on front of dd6, but quietly to the side)?

I have several foreign friends and all are happy to get help with pronunciation or phrases...I just felt as I didn't know her very well, that it would be rude. I did consider trying to drop it into conversation, but I couldn't.

OP posts:
VeniVidiWeeWee · 19/11/2022 23:35

Why can't you just say what the word was?

Are we talking Ly-cester?

BlessMyCottonSocks · 19/11/2022 23:39

Or Car-liss-le?

Yes, I would have quietly and politely corrected her.

HeraldicBlazoning · 19/11/2022 23:43

Has to be Milne-Gavvy.

Or Mull-guy, as locals say.

dwevil · 19/11/2022 23:44

Where is it?

MyGrandmaLizzie · 19/11/2022 23:56

Happisburgh or Costessey in Norfolk?

GoodMorningMrMagpie · 20/11/2022 00:01

HeraldicBlazoning · 19/11/2022 23:43

Has to be Milne-Gavvy.

Or Mull-guy, as locals say.

That’s what I was thinking … 🤣

bloodywhitecat · 20/11/2022 00:03

Grundisburgh?

AutumnCrow · 20/11/2022 00:06

Beaver
Fanshaw

Luredbyapomegranate · 20/11/2022 00:10

Under those circumstances yes, along with a comment on what a wacky language English is

OrDebach · 20/11/2022 00:29

bloodywhitecat · 20/11/2022 00:03

Grundisburgh?

Or nearby Debach? Or not too far away Hollesley?

Ciderandskatesdontmix · 20/11/2022 00:42

OrDebach · 20/11/2022 00:29

Or nearby Debach? Or not too far away Hollesley?

Maybe even Aldeburgh....

Hesleepswiththefishes · 20/11/2022 00:44

What about loogha barhougha

clary · 20/11/2022 00:47

Cowbit?
Boscastle?
Woolfardisworthy?

WeeM · 20/11/2022 00:52

Was it Strathaven AKA stray-ven or Culross Aka Qross lol?

but in those circumstances yes I probably would’ve tried to lightheartedly correct it somehow.

ErrolTheDragon · 20/11/2022 00:53

Luredbyapomegranate · 20/11/2022 00:10

Under those circumstances yes, along with a comment on what a wacky language English is

Yes, or just make some comment about the place but pronounce it correctly as the DD did.

BritWifeInUSA · 20/11/2022 00:54

Towcester?

DuplicateUserName · 20/11/2022 00:56

Yeah of course I would've told her she was pronouncing it wrong, why wouldn't you?

It's not a big deal is it? Confused

UWhatNow · 20/11/2022 00:58

Yes I would’ve corrected her. I’d have gently said ‘… you know Eve, your dd is actually correct, it is pronounced xyz.’

Glasscup · 20/11/2022 00:59

I would ask if they like help or not.

rubydoobydoo · 20/11/2022 01:00

Is it Alnwick? This one got me the other week (and wouldn't have minded being corrected!)

ErrolTheDragon · 20/11/2022 01:21

Or Hawick?

MammaWeasel · 20/11/2022 01:24

Worcestershire? Warwick?

ErrolTheDragon · 20/11/2022 01:27

An American once asked me how to pronounce Cirencester, thought I was kidding when I told him.

Luredbyapomegranate · 20/11/2022 02:03

ErrolTheDragon · 20/11/2022 01:27

An American once asked me how to pronounce Cirencester, thought I was kidding when I told him.

Why, how did he think it would be said?

ErrolTheDragon · 20/11/2022 02:09

Why, how did he think it would be said?
Well, he knew how to say Gloucester and Worcester so didn't know but was sure it couldn't be how it was written.