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People who refer to other people as 'folk'

118 replies

BilliousBob · 19/11/2022 21:34

People who do this make my teeth curl. AIBU

OP posts:
FatOaf · 19/11/2022 21:53

Teeth do not curl.

They don't itch, either. Neither blood nor piss boils.

Why are you singling out this particular expression?

WednesdaysChild11 · 19/11/2022 21:54

Ew. I think it's unreasonable that your teeth curl. Nothing queer as folk.

Teentrauma · 19/11/2022 21:55

Not as bad as "chaps"

Boofay · 19/11/2022 21:55

Meh. It's gender neutral and is said quite often in the countryside.

FatOaf · 19/11/2022 21:55

And the OP specifically said "folk", not "folks". So why are people jumping in to defend the latter when nobody suggested there was anything wrong with it?

Plump82 · 19/11/2022 21:55

I'm in Scotland. I use it quite a lot.

KimmySchmitt · 19/11/2022 21:55

Trulyweird1 · 19/11/2022 21:52

Not really. It sounds more American to me.

Not to me. Think people are confusing 'folks' (bit American) with 'folk' (British/maybe Scottish). As in, there was a load of folk at the party vs hi folks.

Partyprofessional · 19/11/2022 22:01

I’m Scottish and say this too.

Butchyrestingface · 19/11/2022 22:03

I 💕 'personages'.

Krakinou · 19/11/2022 22:04

It’s cringy, though not as bad as “folks”. “People” and “everyone/everybody/all” are perfectly fine words that don’t sound like you’re pretending to be a cowboy.

It’s not better than “guys”, “peeps”, etc. - still just sounds like corporate we’re-all-in-this-together bullshit.

NooNooHead1981 · 19/11/2022 22:04

I actually quite like using "chaps" and "folk". My dad used to called us "guys" as children occasionally (as in "come on, you guys") and it used to really irk my mum sometimes 🤣

ofwarren · 19/11/2022 22:07

Teeth itch
Hair curl

Eastereggs1 · 19/11/2022 22:08

I’m Scottish too and would say it’s v common here

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 19/11/2022 22:08

Folx is awful. Peeps is unbearably twee.

Jennybeans401 · 19/11/2022 22:08

It doesnt bother me

StridTheKiller · 19/11/2022 22:09

Do you mean itch OP?

Itisbetter · 19/11/2022 22:10

Meh. It's gender neutral and is said quite often in the countryside. I think more in town from middle class mummies.

CaptainThe95thRifles · 19/11/2022 22:11

Krakinou · 19/11/2022 22:04

It’s cringy, though not as bad as “folks”. “People” and “everyone/everybody/all” are perfectly fine words that don’t sound like you’re pretending to be a cowboy.

It’s not better than “guys”, “peeps”, etc. - still just sounds like corporate we’re-all-in-this-together bullshit.

And, if you are a genuine, bona fide cowboy, are you then allowed to use "folk"?

Lopilo · 19/11/2022 22:13

It is a regional thing and also used in America a lot (both folk and folks are commonly used in the US). Does this actually annoy you? Its sounds quite insular and snobby to post about this.

MajorCarolDanvers · 19/11/2022 22:14

I bet there are lots that folk round your way say that I would

Teddeh · 19/11/2022 22:16

US use of "folks" is variable; can be folk ("Folks are upset about cost of living increases") but can also mean one's parents ("Are your folks back east?" "She still lives with her folks"). "Folx" is the work of an social science undergraduate doing that "start a pointless social trend and track it online" exercise.

Doesn't piss off people who find 'peeps' wrong on some level.

Peeps are never wrong!!

People who refer to other people as 'folk'
MajorCarolDanvers · 19/11/2022 22:16

MajorCarolDanvers · 19/11/2022 22:14

I bet there are lots that folk round your way say that I would

I would hate

Sorry folks autocorrect got me there.

nomoreflyingducks · 19/11/2022 22:17

Well folk music has been around for centuries.
But you know op different strokes for different folk.

Crankley · 19/11/2022 22:17

It's the perfect word to follow woke.

catsonahottinroof · 19/11/2022 22:18

I didn't used to mind it; thought it quite friendly in the 'nowt so queer as folk' type way, and also noticed it used on MN, especially on the home ed boards. Recently, though, it seems to be used in an almost passive aggressive way, especially around the trans debate (maybe as it's seen as gender neutral).