been seeing bf for a few years.. he booked a hotel for last night and tonight for us as a treat for me "his words" as been a lot of stress lately.. in the past when weve went away hes drank too much ruined things, i think he drinks far too much in generel, . we had planned to have a few quiet drinks last night then get up early this morn and go hiking it was a far journey i wasnt comfortable driving so he promised he would..so went for dinner last night had a laugh and a few drinks and he seemed to be getting drunk and a bit moody so i called it a night and we went upstairs. he passed out.. anyway i woke at 4 o clock and he wasnt there..i looked out the window and he sat in the car drinking cans of beer.. he didnt come back for an hour.. when he came back we fought.. then went back to sleep and woke at 8 and looked and he was sat on the edge of the bed drinking. a can. he tried telling me he was well fit to drive.. i got that pissed off i left and went home.. hes texting saying ive ruined the whole trip by leaving... or has he by being pissed and ruining all our plans.. was a dramatic to leave