To tell his children mum I'm pregnant?

[lejihit641]

Me and partner have been together for 18 months, I'm 16 weeks pregnant, baby was unplanned but we're happy.

He has a 2 year old with her, they split whilst she was pregnant. He is involved and sees his DD every Saturday.

He has said he doesn't want his ex knowing about the pregnancy as she'll stop him seeing his DD, but I think she should know now instead of finding out just before I give birth and she causes arguments etc.

AIBU?

Your partner should tell her, I found out from DS that ex got married and then when the wife got pregnant. He is now going through a divorce and got a new girlfriend. All found out from DS. It has an impact on her DD.

Give your baby your surname and don't count on bf to stick around. He has dumped one baby before it was born. Say nothing or bf will use as excuse to dump you too.