Partner does not like conflict basically I think... but open to ideas here.
We have the worst arguments over what's app.
When he comes home it's like I've been arguing with a different person. He acts almost normally. I'm not an aggressive person but his venting on what's app really brings out the worst in me and I write the most truthful things back which I probably wouldn't say in real life as they are very confrontational.
But does anyone else scream over what's app (I use CAPS LOCK) 😂
At the moment he is claiming I was deceitful as I discussed some issues we were having with a joint friend (and when he asked me I denied it- so fair point - he read my texts and all hell has broken loose. I haven't even told the joint friend every thing.
Partner denies all the things he is deceitful about - always has a smart answer (in his mind)
Yesterday I asked him was he chatting on kik. He said a categorical NO.
I was awake at 5am and wanted to confirm my suspicions and looked on his phone - and he had sent someone a message . They havent replied
This was his reason for saying no he said - he wasn't chatting on KIK. I said it was a downright lie. He said if they would have replied he would have said he was chatting.
God help me... 