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To ask how I can become "rich"?

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raincabin · 08/11/2022 00:04

I know this sounds ridiculous.

I would like to be a high earner, I grew up working class and my knowledge in this area is lacking. I have tried to do my own research but found it difficult, with a lot of opposing answers and many sites/people just trying to sell!

I am doing a midwifery degree, I have always been academic and considered law but I knew I would find it boring.

What can I/should I do so that I can become a high earner?

I dream of nice cars, holidays and not having to worry about stretching until the end of the month. I'd also love to be able to send DC to private school.

I am open to anything.

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Starlia · 08/11/2022 01:45

Oh, just had another thought. Private practice in allied health?

Hawkins001 · 08/11/2022 01:49

raincabin · 08/11/2022 00:04

I know this sounds ridiculous.

I would like to be a high earner, I grew up working class and my knowledge in this area is lacking. I have tried to do my own research but found it difficult, with a lot of opposing answers and many sites/people just trying to sell!

I am doing a midwifery degree, I have always been academic and considered law but I knew I would find it boring.

What can I/should I do so that I can become a high earner?

I dream of nice cars, holidays and not having to worry about stretching until the end of the month. I'd also love to be able to send DC to private school.

I am open to anything.

I thought about investment banking although not so much as getting rich, more as the thrill and intrigue playing the markets.

as for rich rich, I need a lotto win

BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 01:51

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you haven’t explained your thinking behind combining midwifery with a rich lifestyle, no

AliensAteMyHomework · 08/11/2022 01:51

You clearly haven't read my other posts or, struggle with comprehension.

Ok. It's my comprehensiom that's the problem, when you are telling us all that you want a high salary but law is "too boring" so you've decided to study midwifery and you are now baffled why other people earn more.

chaosmaker · 08/11/2022 01:52

Contrary to much popular belief, those salaries don't just drop in people's laps without any effort.

Old boys network?

raincabin · 08/11/2022 01:54

You are both being utterly ridiculous. If you read my posts, you wouldn't have posted this. Funny. 😂

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BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 01:56

raincabin · 08/11/2022 01:54

You are both being utterly ridiculous. If you read my posts, you wouldn't have posted this. Funny. 😂

I literally read them twice after your comment to that other poster about her not having read them and nowhere do you explain the rationale behind starting a midwifery degree while wanting to be rich but please do point out where you’ve explained that

Saurus72 · 08/11/2022 01:58

How about midwifery in private medicine, does that pay significantly more than the NHS? Or being a private doula for wealthy families?

raincabin · 08/11/2022 01:59

Hopefully this will allow the (sad) unpleasant posters to finally rest.

I had to drop out of A Levels because I got very sick, I then had DC.

I love midwifery, I hate the working conditions. It's awful. 29 out of every 30 midwives that qualify either leave or, don't start at all.

I was fine settling for a low salary because it is what I am passionate about, but now I have experienced what it's like first hand, it's no longer worth it.

I am now looking at other career options, and I love the idea of being able to be more than comfortable and send my DC to private school.

I am sorry that I have offended some of you by trying to find tools that could help me build a better life for myself and DC.

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raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:01

I literally read them twice after your comment to that other poster about her not having read them and nowhere do you explain the rationale behind starting a midwifery degree while wanting to be rich but please do point out where you’ve explained that.

😂

Unbelievable. It really must be your comprehension skills then. You have a good day.

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BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 02:01

oh I wasn’t offended, I was questioning why you kept insisting you’d explained your reasoning when you hadn’t

raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:03

Saurus72 · 08/11/2022 01:58

How about midwifery in private medicine, does that pay significantly more than the NHS? Or being a private doula for wealthy families?

Thank you.

It does pay more (bit significantly), but jobs are few and far between.

I have looked into being a doula, but I'm not sure how I'd cope not being able to get hands-on, having trained as a midwife. It is something I'm still considering.

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raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:04

BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 02:01

oh I wasn’t offended, I was questioning why you kept insisting you’d explained your reasoning when you hadn’t

Quite literally everything in that explanation post, I have already said upthread. Not a single part of it is new.

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AliensAteMyHomework · 08/11/2022 02:07

chaosmaker · 08/11/2022 01:52

Contrary to much popular belief, those salaries don't just drop in people's laps without any effort.

Old boys network?

I am not a boy, was state school educated and made homeless at 16. So no.

Booklover3 · 08/11/2022 02:07

80k - 100k is an awful lot of money when you’re on 25k a year. Yes I suppose it’s relative. Yes I suppose your outgoings will go up… but come on. In what world isn’t that a lot of money to earn per year when the average salary in the U.K. is about 38K.

AliensAteMyHomework · 08/11/2022 02:09

raincabin · 08/11/2022 01:59

Hopefully this will allow the (sad) unpleasant posters to finally rest.

I had to drop out of A Levels because I got very sick, I then had DC.

I love midwifery, I hate the working conditions. It's awful. 29 out of every 30 midwives that qualify either leave or, don't start at all.

I was fine settling for a low salary because it is what I am passionate about, but now I have experienced what it's like first hand, it's no longer worth it.

I am now looking at other career options, and I love the idea of being able to be more than comfortable and send my DC to private school.

I am sorry that I have offended some of you by trying to find tools that could help me build a better life for myself and DC.

"Sad unpleasant" posters who all tried to give you helpful career advice? That you asked for.

I am sure they will not bother again. I certainly won't.

Madwife123 · 08/11/2022 02:09

As a midwife.

Midwifery won’t get you rich!

Booklover3 · 08/11/2022 02:10

Sorry that the median! Apparently the average salary is £25K!

BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 02:12

Madwife123 · 08/11/2022 02:09

As a midwife.

Midwifery won’t get you rich!

oh she knows. now. she didn’t realise until starting. or something

raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:12

*"Sad unpleasant" posters who all tried to give you helpful career advice? That you asked for.

I am sure they will not bother again. I certainly won't.*

I have already thanked those posters - I wasn't referring to them.

You have said you "aren't going to bother" countless times now, why are you still posting on this thread? It's bizarre.

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raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:13

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raincabin · 08/11/2022 02:13

Madwife123 · 08/11/2022 02:09

As a midwife.

Midwifery won’t get you rich!

Thank you for all you do.

I know, I have said and explained quite a few times on this thread already.

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AliensAteMyHomework · 08/11/2022 02:14

Not going to bother trying to help you anymore. Done with that.

My latter posts were to counteract your false claims and point out the obvious nonsense of your arguments, in the hope that it might save other well-intentioned posters from the waste of time of trying to help you only to be met with vitriol.

Maddison12 · 08/11/2022 02:16

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What's absurd is what a tit you've made yourself look by posting this. Plenty of people would consider themselves rich if they earned £80k, especially if they lived in a cheaper northern area.

BlackBarbie · 08/11/2022 02:16

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I wasn’t addressing you to be fair

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