My most important point that I always make to people over matters like this is NEVER follow their instructions to cut the card through the chip and destroy it. That chip records actual transactions made with the card. The chip can be read by an independent fraud investigator to prove actual card usage. (I fully realise that this may not apply in this case: a remote transaction like OP’s problem)
However, whoever this bank is, they’re definitely pushing their luck with this blatant fraud. I guess in these difficult times it’s probably a new bank policy of ‘screw the customer wherever possible’.
Persist, persist, persist. Do not give up. You will win. The card being used in the UK close to the time of the fraud is perfect proof for you OP.
It’s ridiculous how the banks are behaving recently over matters like this. Threats to close your account if you don’t bend over and take their crap is disgusting behaviour.
My bank, Nationwide, used to be brilliant at fraud detection like this, phoning us, for example, to ask if we were in a Dubai casino buying £2,000 worth of gambling chips, BUT not anymore unfortunately.
A recent similar event, followed by absolutely appalling customer service, has persuaded us to chuck it in with them. (good customers, current+savings, with them for 37 years) They were extremely rude IN WRITING to us. (I’m an old fart who still uses email)
I was so astonished at the outright rudeness that I asked for confirmation from Swindon that the email was genuine, and not hacked. They said yes, genuine, and if I felt I had to take my business elsewhere, they would ‘fully understand’.
Absolutely gobsmacked…