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To think this is invasive?

113 replies

Sopharsogood · 06/11/2022 11:56

We’ve been working on a hybrid basis but we’ve been told that when we work from home now, we must be on camera for the whole shift.
If we disagree, we have to work from the office full time.

AIBU to feel uncomfortable with this?

OP posts:
DWMoosmum · 06/11/2022 14:31

Absolutely not acceptable. This is your home. It also begs the question as to who will be sitting watching you all work.

Arayes · 06/11/2022 14:35

Darbs76 · 06/11/2022 14:21

I don’t see why it’s invasive. You’re supposed to be working so you’ll only be sitting at your desk, not much to see. Sounds like there’s a reason for this. People have the option of going to the office if they object

You do, if you think about it for more than a second. It's sort of someone sitting on your desk, staring at your face, all day long, every day. Would that be invasive? Or just fine?
Only it's worse. It's someone staring at you all day long, but you don't know who, and you can't see or hear them, and they could be recording you.

If you don't see how that's invasive, I suggest you don't actually have a job, or the ability to have a job.

creideamhdóchasgrá · 06/11/2022 14:37

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Artygirlghost · 06/11/2022 14:39

@ComeOnThenFanny
''Is it actually invasive though? If you were in the office for your shift, you'd be visible to everyone then, wouldn't you? What's the difference? And that's coming from someone who hates having the camera on!''

Of course it is invasive. It is your private home, not an office.

Also most people don't live alone so this would mean people at work could see images of their children, partners, parents, flatmates walking past invading their privacy...

Not everyone has a separate office space where they can be sure that the only person on camera will always be themselves.

Frankly I would immediately find a new employer of anyone tried to suggest this.

creideamhdóchasgrá · 06/11/2022 14:40

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Mumteedum · 06/11/2022 14:42

Start job hunting. It's totally unacceptable.

Many years ago I worked at a place with a lovely atmosphere where people were trusted to work and put the effort in and often over and above to get job done. We were taken over and the culture changed. When people start monitoring you for being 2 mins late logging on etc, then productivity goes down not up.

I'd just not do it. Do they really want to fire people for not being watched all day? Court case waiting to happen.

Glittertwins · 06/11/2022 15:10

@antelopevalley : yes, my manager has zero issues as all our work is like that. There's never been any dispute about my output pre and post covid. I have had a couple of reasonable managers recently though so that helps

Darbs76 · 06/11/2022 17:04

Arayes · 06/11/2022 14:35

You do, if you think about it for more than a second. It's sort of someone sitting on your desk, staring at your face, all day long, every day. Would that be invasive? Or just fine?
Only it's worse. It's someone staring at you all day long, but you don't know who, and you can't see or hear them, and they could be recording you.

If you don't see how that's invasive, I suggest you don't actually have a job, or the ability to have a job.

You really think someone will be employed to sit staring at each person’s face all day long? Sure the company has the money to employ one person per employee to stare at them all day.

luckylavender · 06/11/2022 17:07

ComeOnThenFanny · 06/11/2022 12:02

Is it actually invasive though? If you were in the office for your shift, you'd be visible to everyone then, wouldn't you? What's the difference? And that's coming from someone who hates having the camera on!

This

drpet49 · 06/11/2022 17:07

ComeOnThenFanny · 06/11/2022 12:02

Is it actually invasive though? If you were in the office for your shift, you'd be visible to everyone then, wouldn't you? What's the difference? And that's coming from someone who hates having the camera on!

This.

luckylavender · 06/11/2022 17:09

Stoppissingonmyfuckingheather · 06/11/2022 12:12

No in. My view that is not acceptable in your own home with other people coming and going it is an invasion of privacy do you have cameras on you at all times in the office? I would question the legality of this.

But people shouldn't be coming and going when you're working. You should be working.

luckylavender · 06/11/2022 17:10

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 12:18

I would also ask about child protection rules. Say your teenagers have to walk behind you to get to the next room for example?

False background

Schroedingersimmigrant · 06/11/2022 17:11

luckylavender · 06/11/2022 17:09

But people shouldn't be coming and going when you're working. You should be working.

Lots of people I work with have family members passing briefly behind. They still work.

Artygirlghost · 06/11/2022 19:06

@luckylavender

''But people shouldn't be coming and going when you're working. You should be working.''

If people have flatmates or kids or don't have a spare room to lock themselves in they can't control who comes in and out.

I really find it strange how so many people will blindly follow and accept whatever their employers comes up with it.

It truly is bizarre to me.

If bosses also decided to fit staff with electronic tagging on their ankles or to inject them with a tracking decide so they could remotely monitor their movements to make sure they stay in the house and don't spend more than 30 minutes in their kitchen at lunch, I am sure some would also try to justify that.

At some point you have to ask why so many people are willing to be controlled by anyone who they think has a bit of authority.

If there is an issue with actual productivity and performance then that needs to be addressed with the individual(s) concerned.

Most of us want to be treated like responsible, capable adults and trusted to do the job.

Artygirlghost · 06/11/2022 19:07

this should read ''tracking device''.

Blossomtoes · 06/11/2022 19:18

Unless you wore an invisibility cloak in the office, I can’t see the problem.

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:19

LargeHadronCollidHER · 06/11/2022 13:56

Then you need some serious help

Why the fuck do you think anyone would want to masturbate to you, fully clothed, working?

Women are always dismissed in this way. You really think women do not get sexually harassed at work?

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:20

luckylavender · 06/11/2022 17:10

False background

Does a false background eliminate other people?

LargeHadronCollidHER · 06/11/2022 19:20

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:19

Women are always dismissed in this way. You really think women do not get sexually harassed at work?

Sexual harassment is different to someone wanking over you

unless your claim is that every day women at work are used as wank fodder in the workplace?

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:22

Darbs76 · 06/11/2022 17:04

You really think someone will be employed to sit staring at each person’s face all day long? Sure the company has the money to employ one person per employee to stare at them all day.

But the employee has no idea. Bored boss decides to spend a few hours flicking cameras between each employee. Bored boss decides to stare at employee he secretly fancies.
Employees would have no idea. In the office you can see if your boss is sitting staring at you. And you can go to HR about it. In this scenario you have no idea. You don't even know if you are being recorded.

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:23

LargeHadronCollidHER · 06/11/2022 19:20

Sexual harassment is different to someone wanking over you

unless your claim is that every day women at work are used as wank fodder in the workplace?

If your boss unknowingly was wanking while watching a live feed of you at your desk, that would be sexual harassment.

Darbs76 · 06/11/2022 19:25

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:22

But the employee has no idea. Bored boss decides to spend a few hours flicking cameras between each employee. Bored boss decides to stare at employee he secretly fancies.
Employees would have no idea. In the office you can see if your boss is sitting staring at you. And you can go to HR about it. In this scenario you have no idea. You don't even know if you are being recorded.

In the real world the manager is way too busy to even bother checking and it’s likely just a deterrent. If the staff feel angry about this they need to contact the union and HR policy.

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:27

@Darbs76 If the manager is too busy to look then there is no point.
And I am serious. If my workplace introduced this I would get another job and while working my notice would wear a balaclava or scarf.

Onlyforcake · 06/11/2022 19:27

I'm reminded of a TV series where one character saved recordings of the camera of another. You'd have no way of knowing if that had happened to you. Then there's the issue of image manipulation etc. How many hours of footage would your company 'own' what would they do with that data?

antelopevalley · 06/11/2022 19:28

If you burped or forgot you were in camera and sang a song about your emails, would it be passed around the office for others to laugh at?