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To think my MIL is wrong?

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Bluemonkey18 · 04/11/2022 22:10

I was talking with gf mother (61) about carving pumpkins and she said that they didn't have pumpkins back in the 60s and instead carved turnips. She said they would put a candle inside and run around, rattling bins and scaring people. And that trick or treating wasn't a thing.

OP posts:
VickyEadieofThigh · 06/11/2022 11:06

reesewithoutaspoon · 05/11/2022 17:50

A lot of recent traditions have been imported from the states and its sad to see our own traditions pushed out.

Baby showers, never happened, it was considered unlucky to buy anything before the baby safely arrived, but to visit once it was here with a present and to cross the baby's palm with silver for luck.

End of school prom. We would have a leaving disco and everyone would sign each others shirts.

Pre-school graduations, seeing more and more Fb pics of 4-year-olds in graduation caps and robes.

Just feels like more and more 'events' to celebrate (put pressure on parents to spend money)

Not only is the OP's MiL entirely correct about the turnip/swede carving (I'm 64 and NEVER saw a pumpkin until I was several decades old) but all of what the person I've quoted here mentions was, as suggested, utterly unheard of in my day.

I'm going to go even further - I finished Y11 in 74, Y13 in 76 and there wasn't so much as a leavers' assembly, much less a disco and definitely no shirt signing. We finished our exams and then took our books back!

RaraRachael · 06/11/2022 13:26

Totally agree with what @VickyEadieofThigh and @reesewithoutaspoon have said. A load of money making nonsense. As I always say, I wonder how many British traditions have been adopted in the US or is it a one way thing?

I cringe at nursery "graduations". I left primary school in 1974 - no event to mark it and ditto with high school 5 years later.

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