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To think I'm having the worst night ever

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ohmegee · 04/11/2022 02:17

Been talking to this guy for a few months. Went from a flirty tone to a sort of pally tone over the months. He has recently moved to my city. So last night after having a bottle Blush of wine I decided it was a good idea to suggest I go to his flat. He agreed and over I went.

When I got there there was definitely no chemistry other than friends so that was fine. Stayed for an hour and a half then said my goodbyes. However was literally impossible to get a taxi, all saying they were taking ages and my eyes were shutting on his sofa

He suggested I stayed so I said okay (I still wanted to fuck at this point and thought I was in with a change) however he took me into his bedroom which has two single beds. I am currently in one and he is currently snoring his head off in the other 🤣

I'm so affronted. I wish I'd just pushed to go home. Now if I decide to get up and go it will wake him up and be very awkward. Not to mention I am in a rough part of the city. But there's also no way I can sleep tonight and my dogs are at home alone. I'm so mad at myself for not just heading on home when I had the chance.

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Sparklfairy · 04/11/2022 16:58

Herejustforthisone · 04/11/2022 07:57

A lot of attempts by women on here to ‘slut shame’ another woman.

Fuck sake.

I wouldn't call it slut shaming, but she's acting like the sort of sleazy bloke that I generally avoid.

No chemistry, but would've fucked him anyway, sulked in her single bed then escaped cos she wasn't getting her rocks off.

Gross behaviour whether man or woman.

Comedycook · 04/11/2022 16:59

Bizarre....no chemistry but you still wanted to have sex? Then when he did the right thing and not shag you in your inebriated state, you feel aggrieved. I think he's had a lucky escape.

Imagine if a bloke posted this...I didn't fancy her but I still wanted to fuck...then she wouldn't sleep in the same bed as me. He'd be ripped to shreds.

BMW6 · 04/11/2022 17:11

Well exactly. MN double standards at its finest. 🙄

Whiskeypowers · 04/11/2022 19:24

Untitledsquatboulder · 04/11/2022 16:10

Me neither which is why I - didn't.

Excellent ☺️

dementedma · 04/11/2022 19:33

He sounds like a decent bloke. Bit of a dramatic post for a non event

Poppyseed14 · 05/11/2022 10:32

Fraaahnces · 04/11/2022 03:21

Omg… Sounds like Ernie and Bert

🤣🤣🤣🤣

IntrovertedPenguin · 05/11/2022 10:35

Sounds like he's had a very lucky escape.

notmyrealmoniker · 05/11/2022 11:15

He sounds like a nice guy, just not into you. Don't take it personally and I'd say lucky escape as it could have turned quite nasty. I think you do need to be a little more careful because we hear so many stories of women putting themselves in unsafe situations and falling victim to predators.

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