If that same person has replied in a group chat?
I messaged friend on Saturday to check she got home ok after I dropped her off at the train station and heard nothing back.
Today a friend in a group chat (who we also saw on Saturday) asked a very generic question and she’s messaged back in that.
Just think it’s a bit rude
AIBU?
To think it’s rude not to text back?
feelingfuller · 31/10/2022 19:50
Am I being unreasonable?
173 votes. Final results.
POLLObki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
PritiPatelsMaker · 31/10/2022 20:20
My phone often doesn't show me messages. I have no idea why.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
Keyansier · 31/10/2022 21:15
I think that is a good point.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
feelingfuller · 01/11/2022 00:07
The fact you’re hanging around this thread to pounce on any comment that would go against me is hilarious. But very very sad on your part.
You aren’t a nice person and you’ve proved that twice in one thread.
Keyansier · 31/10/2022 21:15
I think that is a good point.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
feelingfuller · 01/11/2022 00:05
You have issues if you HATE a friend doing nothing but being nice. What a sad life.
I would have followed it up the next day. Unfortunately I’m on strong medication and I took some when I got home and fell asleep very quickly.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
feelingfuller · 01/11/2022 00:07
The fact you’re hanging around this thread to pounce on any comment that would go against me is hilarious. But very very sad on your part.
You aren’t a nice person and you’ve proved that twice in one thread.
Keyansier · 31/10/2022 21:15
I think that is a good point.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
NameOfMine · 01/11/2022 01:25
You wanted to check she got home safely - it's common sense to respond. What if she hadn't? At what point would you call the police? You happened to have seen another post she's made, but checking up that people have arrived home safely is particularly important after what happened in the sad case of Sarah Everard. There is a possibility that she typed a reply and forgot to press send.
feelingfuller · 01/11/2022 00:05
You have issues if you HATE a friend doing nothing but being nice. What a sad life.
I would have followed it up the next day. Unfortunately I’m on strong medication and I took some when I got home and fell asleep very quickly.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
feelingfuller · 01/11/2022 00:07
The fact you’re hanging around this thread to pounce on any comment that would go against me is hilarious. But very very sad on your part.
You aren’t a nice person and you’ve proved that twice in one thread.
Keyansier · 31/10/2022 21:15
I think that is a good point.
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
Mlb123 · 01/11/2022 02:02
Anyway , I know the feeling of rejection and being ignored well, but these days I don't let it bother me and instead I find amusement in it. At present the most amusing thing for me is that after years of mainly lurking (since 2009) I have began posting a good few replies and stuff, but as in real life when I message people -i get nobody acknowledging the posts and messages as I write essays that bore on and I can't manage paragraphs much either. So anyway I shall test if people are reading my messages by writing that everyone on Mumsnet are evil, ignorant bitches who can't respond to my posts as they don't have the intelligence quota to do so! Not! Lol xxx
Obki · 31/10/2022 20:56
I really hate this think some women do where they check up on each other, because it often means nothing.
OP, when your friend didn’t reply what did you do? Did you call the police? Did you drive over to her house?
No, you dod nothing. So what was the point of asking her if she got home?
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parameter · 01/11/2022 02:06
what the fuck
Mlb123 · 01/11/2022 02:02
Anyway , I know the feeling of rejection and being ignored well, but these days I don't let it bother me and instead I find amusement in it. At present the most amusing thing for me is that after years of mainly lurking (since 2009) I have began posting a good few replies and stuff, but as in real life when I message people -i get nobody acknowledging the posts and messages as I write essays that bore on and I can't manage paragraphs much either. So anyway I shall test if people are reading my messages by writing that everyone on Mumsnet are evil, ignorant bitches who can't respond to my posts as they don't have the intelligence quota to do so! Not! Lol xxx
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