Did have to laugh at you telling someone whose had a diagnosis for 22 years that 'losing weight is a big factor'.
As many women will tell you, it is often the only treatment we are offered and I suspect you don't understand the mechanisms of the condition if you can so blithely put it forward as a 'treatment' option for the hirsutism caused by it. And as for 'the only option for transwomen is laser hair removal', I mean, that's just not true, is it? Those of us with PCOS who have to deal with extensive facial hair due to the condition pluck, bleach or pay for laser hair removal ourselves.
If laser hair removal is considered so vital for the confidence and self image of transwomen that a national document has been produced to underline the necessity that they be offered laser hair removal on the NHS, it seems bizarre that similar hasn't been done for the 1 in 5 women who have PCOS. But then, it's a woman's health condition so unsurprising.
As an aside, I actually don't think that laser hair removal should be offered on the NHS for anyone given the current pressures on the NHS and the long waiting lists for life saving treatment.