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Woman can't get breast reduction but people can get gender surgery wtaf?

66 replies

Mothergoosesbiggestfan · 29/10/2022 09:15

www.thesun.co.uk/health/20246040/strangers-stare-at-my-enormous-boobs/

Seriously what is wrong with the priorities of our country? Poor woman!

OP posts:
RosesAndHellebores · 29/10/2022 23:24

Delayed cancer treatment
No ambulances
Unavailability of CAMHS

Not sure it's all about under funding. My local MH Trust was given an extra £2.3m for CAMHS. It spent it on another layer of bureaucracy which resulted in even worse services and another review which cost another shed load of money. It followed the reviews in 2009 and 2014 that said the service was inadequate.

Comefromaway · 29/10/2022 23:27

My son’s 18 year old friend can’t get surgery for pectus excavatum even though his ribs are crushing his heart and lungs causing breathing issues and reduction in fitness because it’s “cosmetic”

its very upsetting.

Tangled123 · 29/10/2022 23:31

My colleague went to Dublin for her breast reduction rather than wait for the NHS. She had already waited two years before COVID hit, but was then told by the NHS that they didn’t know when they’d be able to get her in for it. She was having too much back pain and headaches to cope without it.
I’d love to have one myself but I’ll never be able to afford it sadly.

Waitwhat23 · 29/10/2022 23:46

Lockheart · 29/10/2022 23:20

Has it been prioritised though? Can you support that claim (with actual information and policy, not anecdotes)?

Can't link the document but from the NHS Scotland document 'National Gender Identity Clinical Network Scotland Facial Hair Removal for Transgender Patients, 2020, V1'

p4

'The removal of facial hair is seen as an essential part of gender transition for transgender patients. The absence of facial hair is of significant psychological benefit and produces greater well-being for the patient (4). As such, this must be seen as a necessary treatment, that contributes to the safety and confidence of people living in an identity-congruent gender role. It is recommended that facial hair removal should commence as early in the transition process as is practicable.'

I have PCOS, was diagnosed 22 years ago and have facial hair to the extent I have to pluck every couple of days. I find it quite distressing and it has been detrimental to my self image. I have never been offered any kind of hair removal. Ever. I had to fight for 10 years to get the treatment for severe acne due to my PCOS. The NHS says this regarding hair removal due to PCOS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos/treatment/ . It's certainly not something that my NHS area offers. Many women (including myself) struggle with their mental health due to the condition.

I have met a single, solitary GP who had any in depth knowledge of PCOS over the last 22 years. Bear in mind that it's a condition which affects 1 in 5 women.

Bigtitsbetty · 30/10/2022 00:04

I’ve just had a breast reduction privately. I saw 5 surgeons prior to choosing which one did my surgery.

Even when paying a surgeon won’t do it if your BMI is over 30. From the photo in the article I estimate that her BMI is over 30 and I guess that it’s the reason she won’t be able to have surgery.

Waitwhat23 · 30/10/2022 00:59

Comefromaway · 29/10/2022 23:27

My son’s 18 year old friend can’t get surgery for pectus excavatum even though his ribs are crushing his heart and lungs causing breathing issues and reduction in fitness because it’s “cosmetic”

its very upsetting.

That's awful. I hadn't heard of the condition so just looked it up and it's bizarre that the surgery has been deemed cosmetic.

RambamThankyouMam · 30/10/2022 01:35

The NHS shouldn't be performing "trans surgeries." It's Frankenstein medicine.

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2022 02:15

had my reduction surgery in 1999 and it changed my life. Went from a 32 JJ to a C and its been amazing. Back pain gone, 6 monthly mammograms and biopsies (at 27) because of yet another lump gone, suddenly I was no longer getting cat calls of "nice tits love" or men who seemed completely unable to look any higher than my chest.

Its disgraceful that this poor woman has to put up with that because of this trans bullshit.

PyongyangKipperbang · 30/10/2022 02:19

I was 32 HH, had the article in my mind when I wrote my post.

nannyquestion1 · 30/10/2022 02:26

RambamThankyouMam · 30/10/2022 01:35

The NHS shouldn't be performing "trans surgeries." It's Frankenstein medicine.

Quite!

makemeamum · 30/10/2022 05:00

Gender surgery shouldn't be available on the NHS anyway.

KimberleyClark · 30/10/2022 07:20

Covetthee · 29/10/2022 22:27

I have been on the waiting list for reduction for 5 years!!! i got told to wait till after kids. Had my kids and still waiting.

i am 5’2 size 10 everywhere but my boobs 34jj.. i have constant back aches and headaches, i have a visible hump appearing cause of the weight but apparently i’m still not a priority but a man wanting boobs!? Yeh skip straight ahead

Breast implants for transwomen aren’t routinely available on the NHS. However transmen I.e biological women can get their breasts removed.

Soubriquet · 30/10/2022 07:28

Wouldn’t it be great if you could pair up with a tw and transfer your boobs to him

He has to pay for the entire procedure. Then we would see if being a man with boobs is desperate enough

WifeMotherWorker · 30/10/2022 07:30

RambamThankyouMam · 30/10/2022 01:35

The NHS shouldn't be performing "trans surgeries." It's Frankenstein medicine.

Yep!

ForwardRolls · 30/10/2022 07:46

Breast reduction has never been routinely available on the NHS unless you meet a strict criteria, and even then it's an uphill battle.

Mothergoosesbiggestfan · 30/10/2022 07:51

@Lockheart There's no need to make this into an attack on trans-identifying people

Twist as you see fit. It's not this is an attack on the priorities of the NHS.

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SpookyPanda · 30/10/2022 07:55

Are there any stats on this?

MNchickens · 30/10/2022 08:09

Mothergoosesbiggestfan · 30/10/2022 07:51

@Lockheart There's no need to make this into an attack on trans-identifying people

Twist as you see fit. It's not this is an attack on the priorities of the NHS.

Except you seem unable or unwilling to see the two aren’t remotely related

Trans people have to wait longer than the average women who wants a breast reduction on the NHS

They’re not being prioritised.

It’s also not the same surgeons performing the surgeries so even if the NHS stopped GRS tomorrow wait times for breast reduction wouldn’t decrease

the NHS has ALWAYS had a tight criteria for breast reduction.

MNchickens · 30/10/2022 08:10

Soubriquet · 30/10/2022 07:28

Wouldn’t it be great if you could pair up with a tw and transfer your boobs to him

He has to pay for the entire procedure. Then we would see if being a man with boobs is desperate enough

Wouldn’t it be great if you had even an ounce of common sense

Bigtitsbetty · 30/10/2022 08:12

Covetthee · 29/10/2022 22:27

I have been on the waiting list for reduction for 5 years!!! i got told to wait till after kids. Had my kids and still waiting.

i am 5’2 size 10 everywhere but my boobs 34jj.. i have constant back aches and headaches, i have a visible hump appearing cause of the weight but apparently i’m still not a priority but a man wanting boobs!? Yeh skip straight ahead

Are you sure you’re in correct bra size? A 34 back when you’re size 10 seems very large.

I’m a size 14 and wear a 32 or 34.

MNchickens · 30/10/2022 08:13

Waitwhat23 · 29/10/2022 23:46

Can't link the document but from the NHS Scotland document 'National Gender Identity Clinical Network Scotland Facial Hair Removal for Transgender Patients, 2020, V1'

p4

'The removal of facial hair is seen as an essential part of gender transition for transgender patients. The absence of facial hair is of significant psychological benefit and produces greater well-being for the patient (4). As such, this must be seen as a necessary treatment, that contributes to the safety and confidence of people living in an identity-congruent gender role. It is recommended that facial hair removal should commence as early in the transition process as is practicable.'

I have PCOS, was diagnosed 22 years ago and have facial hair to the extent I have to pluck every couple of days. I find it quite distressing and it has been detrimental to my self image. I have never been offered any kind of hair removal. Ever. I had to fight for 10 years to get the treatment for severe acne due to my PCOS. The NHS says this regarding hair removal due to PCOS - www.nhs.uk/conditions/polycystic-ovary-syndrome-pcos/treatment/ . It's certainly not something that my NHS area offers. Many women (including myself) struggle with their mental health due to the condition.

I have met a single, solitary GP who had any in depth knowledge of PCOS over the last 22 years. Bear in mind that it's a condition which affects 1 in 5 women.

So as expected

no evidence it’s being prioritised

What you seem to fail to understand is for women with PCOS there are multiple methods to help with hair growth, which the NHS obviously try first. Losing weight is a big factor

For trans women there is only one method for hair removal to try, which is laser hair removal

Critical thinking seems to be a rarity these days

Soubriquet · 30/10/2022 08:15

MNchickens · 30/10/2022 08:10

Wouldn’t it be great if you had even an ounce of common sense

Nah. Where’s the fun in that

Bobbybobbins · 30/10/2022 08:46

Evidence for this? Stats?

Waitwhat23 · 30/10/2022 09:04

MNchickens · 30/10/2022 08:13

So as expected

no evidence it’s being prioritised

What you seem to fail to understand is for women with PCOS there are multiple methods to help with hair growth, which the NHS obviously try first. Losing weight is a big factor

For trans women there is only one method for hair removal to try, which is laser hair removal

Critical thinking seems to be a rarity these days

Did have to laugh at you telling someone whose had a diagnosis for 22 years that 'losing weight is a big factor'.

As many women will tell you, it is often the only treatment we are offered and I suspect you don't understand the mechanisms of the condition if you can so blithely put it forward as a 'treatment' option for the hirsutism caused by it. And as for 'the only option for transwomen is laser hair removal', I mean, that's just not true, is it? Those of us with PCOS who have to deal with extensive facial hair due to the condition pluck, bleach or pay for laser hair removal ourselves.

If laser hair removal is considered so vital for the confidence and self image of transwomen that a national document has been produced to underline the necessity that they be offered laser hair removal on the NHS, it seems bizarre that similar hasn't been done for the 1 in 5 women who have PCOS. But then, it's a woman's health condition so unsurprising.

As an aside, I actually don't think that laser hair removal should be offered on the NHS for anyone given the current pressures on the NHS and the long waiting lists for life saving treatment.

YouSirNeighMmmm · 30/10/2022 09:06

Lockheart · 29/10/2022 22:44

The NHS offering gender reassignment surgery (in whatever form) is not the reason why this woman can't get a breast reduction.

The NHS being totally underfunded, mismanaged, and broken is the reason why.

There's no need to make this into an attack on trans-identifying people.

I accept your point to a large extent, but to ignore the misogyny involved in helping men be what they categorically are not, before helping women be women, is wrong.

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