So bit of a weird one…
My partner used to work with a bloke who was gay, they’ve both left that place a while back at different times and not spoke for years. My partner has told me stories of this guy commenting and looking at his bulge while he was at work and would always try flirting with him despite my partner being straight 🙈 All well and good, before I knew him etc…
Anyways I’ve been with him 4 years and have kids together and not once has said guy messaged. Last night my partner was on night shift and got a message from said guy congratulating him for his new job, a few messages in of general conversation and then the flirting has started…(Partner told me about and showed me the messages). Said guy is flirting again calling him hot, saying he hopes I know how lucky I am to of bagged him, saying he almost bagged him himself (he didn’t), fetching up the past where he apparently got a lift home by my partner one night and offered him a b!*w Job for giving him the lift home (partner refused) and the most recent message saying he has a mental image of what my partners penis looks like 🥴 The whole time my partners saying “nah, definitely not”, “nah, nah, nah” etc so turning him down and this guys still trying…
Said guy also mentioned he starts driving at the end of the year hopefully, and would come for a catch up, then proceeded to say “don’t worry I won’t try and touch you”
My question is (as much as it’s slightly funny because he’s not gay himself), why is it still slightly bothering me? 😫 Think I’m stuck between “it’s fine he’s a bloke your not gay, yous are mates too, he just wants my partner not the other way round” or it’s no different than if a lass was trying it on with him..?