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To think the so called Uinionist party are the most devisive of them all!

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abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 10:14

Conservatives and the DUP! both parties who claim to believe in the "Union" Yet both doing a great job at convincing the rest of us we would be better off out of the mess that is Westminster! AIBU for wanting a Border poll in NI?

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DownNative · 21/10/2022 13:33

JenniferBarkley · 21/10/2022 13:30

A border poll is the absolute last thing NI needs. We need several generations of boring stability before considering any constitutional changes, which is why Brexit was such a disaster.

Yes, I believe this is EXACTLY the point Malachi O'Doherty makes in his latest book "Can Ireland Be One?".

Anyone who thinks a border poll is going to solve the problems is living in fantasy land, to be honest.

deliverooyoutoo · 21/10/2022 13:34

JenniferBarkley · 21/10/2022 13:30

A border poll is the absolute last thing NI needs. We need several generations of boring stability before considering any constitutional changes, which is why Brexit was such a disaster.

This.

washingbasketqueen · 21/10/2022 13:35

How back in the archives did you go back to find that? Martin mcguinness and Gerry adams look at least 30 years younger! And Martin mcguinness is listed as a current mp despite being dead!

DownNative · 21/10/2022 13:48

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 13:21

@DownNative or maybe it reflects a conservative government who are willing to offer anything regardless of it effect on the rest of the country so long as it keeps their DUP mps happy so they can rely on their votes in the HOC. Decisions they make to appease the DUP have little to no effect on them so what the hell! Give them
what they want.

This makes little sense. The DUP have not had a Kingmaker role since May's Premiership and the I/NIP came well after it. And the issue continues to affect the sovereign UK Government, so they want it renegotiated or they'll unilaterally replace parts of the I/NIP.

No UK Government wants to preside over pr enable the dissolution of the Union, so the government is doing this off their own back. The DUP doesn't have the power you think they do.

DownNative · 21/10/2022 13:52

washingbasketqueen · 21/10/2022 13:35

How back in the archives did you go back to find that? Martin mcguinness and Gerry adams look at least 30 years younger! And Martin mcguinness is listed as a current mp despite being dead!

Seconds. They ARE Provisional Sinn Féin which is contrary to your claim. If I recall correctly, no ballot paper carried their full name in the 1980s and neither did their election posters.

Ergo, it's certainly not inflammatory to use their full name. PSF is literally the mirror image of DUP.

DownNative · 21/10/2022 13:55

washingbasketqueen · 21/10/2022 13:35

How back in the archives did you go back to find that? Martin mcguinness and Gerry adams look at least 30 years younger! And Martin mcguinness is listed as a current mp despite being dead!

Oh, and right at the top of the page containing their Provisional Sinn Féin full name we can see Mary Lou too. It's certainly not a page that's 30 years old! 🤔🤦‍♂️

The screenshot I provided does NOT mention McGuinness. 🤦‍♂️

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 13:57

@DownNative Do you agree with the DUP and their continuing stalemate with Stormont? What happens next Friday when we reach the time limit and no government is sitting in Stormont?

What do NI unionists really believe about this situation?

(again not being inflammatory or judgy im genuinely interested )

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FlorettaB · 21/10/2022 14:00

I think England, Wales and Scotland should all go for independence and leave N. Ireland in a union of 1.

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 14:45

@FlorettaB why do you think that?

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FlorettaB · 21/10/2022 14:48

I think that if you asked the people of Scotland, Wales and England most of them don’t give a damn about Northern Ireland. The most sympathy would be in Scotland but it wants out of the Union.

greenhousegal · 21/10/2022 15:05

The reality is that apart from a relatively small proportion of people, most think NI is actually part of the Republic anyway.

People in the South (ROI) are not ready for a UI either, and many -while aspirationally in favour, just want it as a distant option sometime way into the future.

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 15:12

@FlorettaB Thank you. That beautifully illustrates what I thought.

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abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 15:13

@greenhousegal I agree. Over half of my family live in ROI. They don't want anything to do with us.

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JenniferBarkley · 21/10/2022 15:16

People in the South (ROI) are not ready for a UI either, and many -while aspirationally in favour, just want it as a distant option sometime way into the future.

Absolutely. I'm from Dublin and have lived in NI a long time now. I don't see any enthusiasm for a UI among my friends and family and I don't blame them either tbh. The implications for ROI would be in my mind when I cast my vote even though NI is home, that's for sure.

GetThatHelmetOn · 21/10/2022 15:21

Frankly, we have a constitutional dictatorship under the Tories, they change their rules at their own convenience. The only reason I am not campaigning for a split from the Union is because, living in England… I can’t.

Foolsandtheirmoney · 21/10/2022 15:25

JenniferBarkley · 21/10/2022 15:16

People in the South (ROI) are not ready for a UI either, and many -while aspirationally in favour, just want it as a distant option sometime way into the future.

Absolutely. I'm from Dublin and have lived in NI a long time now. I don't see any enthusiasm for a UI among my friends and family and I don't blame them either tbh. The implications for ROI would be in my mind when I cast my vote even though NI is home, that's for sure.

I'm in Ireland and agree. Why rock the boat? There is no benefit to us really to have a UI but there is potential for a lot of trouble. It just isn't something that anyone I know I'd interested in in any real way. There are some die hards of course but they are in the minority.

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 15:29

I i've just seen Boris is 2nd in the leadership race! I think it's time I just moved away!

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JenniferBarkley · 21/10/2022 15:30

abstractplantpot · 21/10/2022 15:29

I i've just seen Boris is 2nd in the leadership race! I think it's time I just moved away!

Feeling a bit that way myself.

EmilyGilmoresSass · 21/10/2022 15:40

rainstorm101 · 21/10/2022 10:52

So freaky as I am just sitting here reading this and thinking about the same thing.

I want to see some proper laid out plans from someone and everyone about what a UI would look like and what provisions will be made for the 800,000 (is that about right?) people who strongly, passionately believe they are British. Because no matter what side you think you’re on and what you believe in, if you don’t take it very, very seriously then there will be a new wave of utter carnage. I am a soft nationalist (ie I believe we would ultimate be better off in a UI and the EU, with a strong mandate and a PLAN) but if you look at socio-economic current outcomes for working class protestant boys in the current system (and I believe they are being let down by society and their political leadership) then what have they got to lose, they will go nuts.

Is it a good read?

MatronicO6 · 21/10/2022 15:43

YANBU to put a lot of blame for the current situation on the DUP and Conservatives. Conservatives couldn't care less about the lives of the majority of the population, let alone NI. DUP are self important and have absolutely zero consideration for the people of NI, they literally prioritize the 'union' over their own voters. They are holding the country ransom because they didn't get their way, despite their position being entirely their own fault.

NI is too rooted in tribal politics rather than everyday issues that affect people. The fixation with a UI means a lot of people lose sight of improving the everyday lives of NI citizens. With the current cost of living crisis, it is disgusting that the DUP are putting their own agendas before the good of the citizens they are meant to represent. It's exasperated by the fact Westminster could not give a shit about NI and sorting out the stalemate is clearly the least of their worries right now.

There won't be a border poll anytime soon and the country is not in a position for it. Depressingly, it will continue to dominate people's voting patterns, people will continue to vote tribally and the country will continue to end up in stalemates were no one is winning.

washingbasketqueen · 21/10/2022 15:50

@DownNative their current official website does not call themselves anything other than Sinn Fein.

To think the so called Uinionist party are the most devisive of them all!
washingbasketqueen · 21/10/2022 15:53

Well said @MatronicO6

StrataZon · 21/10/2022 15:53

The fixation with a UI means a lot of people lose sight of improving the everyday lives of NI citizens. With the current cost of living crisis, it is disgusting that the DUP are putting their own agendas before the good of the citizens they are meant to represent.

We say this about the SNP in Scotland. Been in power for 15 years now and have done nothing to improve health, poverty and education outcomes. Because they are basically a single agenda party and put that above the people they represent

BrokeAsABone · 21/10/2022 16:30

OP I'm totally with you. I can't wait to get out of the UK. Partition was a massive injustice...established to make NI a gerrymandered, sectarian hole with a supremacist, Protestant, unionist majority forever. And boy, did they ever abuse it. My parents were beaten in Burntollet by loyalist thugs and the British State simply for peacefully marking for the civil rights denied them just for being Irish Catholics. We had NOTHING growing up. At least the unionist majority is over and never, ever to return. Thank God for it.

How anyone can ever support the unjust partition is beyond me. You have to be a pretty awful person. And as for the DUP...wiser eating grass as they say. Useless, selfish bigots, and that goes for their voters, too.

BrokeAsABone · 21/10/2022 16:31

Marching. And my mum was pregnant at the time. Not the union's finest hour, really. Even the S African apartheid regime was shocked at how unionists and the British State treated Irish people in the six. That tells you everything.