The problem we have is we are just about to have to cut our charity giving to zero - was giving c.£90 a month by direct debit. Plus, we have just given food to the harvest food appeal, for local food banks, but will not be able to give to food banks regularly.
This is to ensure we can feed our own family, support an elderly relative who is now going to struggle due to being on a pension, and to make sure we can have some, albeit limited, heating on.
So, yes we are lucky to both have jobs, to pay our taxes. However, being in the middle we can no longer afford to help others.
it is not so we can change our car ( 11yr old and needs to keep going), or go on holiday ( our oldest child has been on 2 holidays in their life - one which cost under £300), it is so we can feed, clothe, heat and pay our childcare bill on top of rising energy, fuel and food costs.
instead of giving away my chidkren’s clothes, the best ones will now be sold to help buy replacements etc.
so from being able to help others, we are now not in the position to.