Hello all,
I'm having a bit of trouble with my mum. I've just been through a difficult life change and I needed some support.
But my mum keeps making my depression worse. Yes, she helps me a bit and then has moments of screaming at me, and telling me that I will no longer be in her will, talking (badly) of my friends (she Google searched without my permission).
I need family but I really don't need and like someone constantly interfering in my life, helping me, and then emotionally blackmailing me. Every time I make a mistake and spill something, there's a scene and then she calls her friends via her mobile to tell them what a horrid person I am.
She also keeps mentioning my biological father whom I haven't even seen for 20 years.
Sorry, I'm not writing this to complain, I just need some sage advice because this is so bizarre that I don't know how to deal with it. I just don't want her in my life, AIBU?
What would you do? I want to be a normal person and live my life again, and not be someone's prisoner (and their past)
Could you please advise me? x