Lesbians rushing relationships?

[ailbailsail]

Is this a thing?
I have 3 friends all dating less than 6 months
2 already moved in and engaged and the other saving for a mortgage.
Is this a thing?
I've never known people rush ahead so much

Are you a lesbian?
Do you save this kind of judgement for everyone in your life, or just lesbians?

If it’s not your relationship then I suggest you don’t bother worrying about it/commenting. You sound judgemental.

Bit weird that this is the 2nd thread today about lesbians rushing relationships

It's a thing for sure... there's jokes about u-haul vans on second dates.

This was on a lesbian chat group I was on. Maybe it was unique!?

Wow. Do you want to take your thinly veiled homophobia somewhere else?

Some of the fastest moving relationships I know have been between straight people..

My anecdata is worth the same as yours.

Indeed!

I speak as a relationship-rushing lesbian whose partner moved in with me after we'd known each other only 3 months and a month after we were first physical with each other.

Been together more than 23 years now...

So...this is a homophobia thread now? We all laugh, or what?

Are there any lesbians on this thread who are offended, or is it just straight people offended on their behalf. Yes, a slightly clumsy OP, but…

Yes it’s definitely a thing, just like catching the gay is a thing. All gay women are exactly the same, and all their relationships are, and you definitely don’t sound like a massive tool.

Well I guess @myexisawanker might be a weird straight woman who chooses to join lesbian chat groups but...

I'm not lesbian and married my dh after 6 months 🤷‍♀️ seventeen years later we seem to be doing OK...

P.s I'm gay myself
I don't rush into anything so just curious if it's a thing

What's it got to do with you anyway?

@ailbailsail I'm sure if you're gay yourself you have all the anecdotal evidence from your own relationships to fill in the gaps.

Sincerely,

Another gay.

Meh. I was living with my ex within about six months. I'm straight.

Someone I know got engaged on day four. They are still together, and have a grandchild. They are straight.

It's not a 'lesbian thing'.

I moved in with dp after 4 months,

Are the relationships working or not?
Anybody could rush into a relationships it wil ether work or it won't I'm not gay I met my dh in the February and we married in the August, lots of people had misgivings and yet here we are after 17 years we have lasted a lot longer than plenaty of those who had misgivings 🤷‍♀️

What do you call a lesbian with long fingernails?

I know it is a thing with many straight couples. Because you know, the first rush of love and hormones and all. I don’t know enough lesbian couples to generalise. I know that my best friend and her gf kept their relationship secret for a few years because of homophobia from her parents. They did eventually move in together and lived together for a few years.

married lesbian here… moved in together after 6 months, bought a house after 2 years, married a year later.

I would say we moved the quickest out of both our friendship groups. Not sure if thats a gay thing or just because we both knew what we wanted from life, where we wanted to go etc. Some of our ‘hetro’ friends have been in relationships for 6+years and yet have never lived together… i find that stranger imo!

6 months isn’t that uncommon for most to move in and start saving towards mortgages together. The engaged ones I’ll give you but still not that bad

Single!!!!

Lesbian here.
Relationship moving at snail's pace.
Suits us.

I know 2 straight couples almost on the same time. Will I ask them if they are trying to compete with the lesbians?!

What a weird thread! Most people's relationships move at a the pace they are comfortable with. How does it concern or impact you?