Caught DH wanking over a picture of a teenager…

[RaggedBlousedPhilanthropist]

Granted it was a picture of me, I was 19 at the time it was taken, and he took the photo… but still….

Basically he’d forgotten to lock the bathroom door and I walked in on him
mid wank. He was holding a paper photograph of me wearing a bikini that he took on a beach on holiday in Spain when we were both 19. He was my BF at the time.

We’re both late 30s now so this was nearly 20 years ago.

He asked what the problem was and that I should be pleased that it’s a picture of me,

I said that I was a teenager at the time it was taken and that this was gross.

He said that I don’t look much different now to how I looked then.

I stormed out and we’re both at work.

Now I’m in a dilemma.

Should I secretly be pleased that he was masturbating over a picture of me (rather than porno of some other woman)?

or

Should I be completely grossed out that he was wanking over a picture of a girl who was barely legal wearing a skimpy bikini on a beach in Spain?

Answers on a postcard, please…

You were 19 and you’re late 30s.
It’s not as if he’s 60 and you were 14.

Ha ha very funny

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What an absolute non issue 🙄 plus 19 is hardly gross you’re an adult at that point just like him.

Presume he was having sex with you when you were 19?

I don't eve get how this is an issue.

Oh come on!

YABVU.

You were 19 not 9. Get over yourself.

Whats with all of the crazy posts today? Was it a full moon last night?!

Such a misleading thread title...

God Lord, I bet you could start an argument in room by yourself. This is a complete non issue!

What a load of nonsense.

He can close his eye and imagine you as a 29 year old anytime he likes. He was also 19ish at the time. You were teenagers together. You share those memories. He found you attractive then, and finds you attractive now. It was a memory lane walk, not a perv going after a teenage girl.

You need to grow up.

Yawnworthy 🙄

Admit it. You’re proud of this, aren’t you?

You’re upset that your DH was sexually aroused by a photograph of you, that he took when he was with you in a sexual / romantic relationship?

its not a picture of a barely legal teenage girl. It was a picture of you.

Or is this a stealth boast??

Look! my husband still wanks over me! 🤣🤣

You sound like a real barrel of laughs!

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Everyone Pause!!!

We have had this thread before almost word for word....

Guarantee....I even checked to see if it was a zombie!

I suspect you're just a bit grossed out intellectually at the sight and idea of your hubby wanking over a picture, even one of you.

Definite stealth boast

Don’t be bloody ridiculous

You were 19 and an Adult

He took the photo and was your partner at the time and still is now.

Do you not like to recall previous fun times with you partner? As far as I see that’s all he was doing, enjoying himself thinking of previous fun times with you.

Your getting hung up on the fact that you were 19 at the time, if you had been 14 or 15 I could understand, but at 19 and in a relationship with him, I couldn’t go to the effort of being bothered about this.

Is it Half term already?