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OH being 4 hours away, when I'm due to give birth any day.

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WhyMe131 · 11/10/2022 17:22

I was due to give birth on Saturday, still nothing. OH mentioned this morning that he whats to go visit his cousins grave tmrw as it will be 2 months since his death, it's a 4 hour drive away! As you can probably imagine what's going through my head. I never said anything so he kept saying what do you think, eventually I said, I'm going to state the facts which are, I could give birth any day, especially since I'm having the sweep today. Again after the sweep at the doctors he mentioned it again saying, I was thinking of going early morning then coming back as soon as. Hes been doing my nut in throughout this whole pregnancy, arguing over the dumbest of things.

Seriously am I going fucking insane!

Is he an idiotic dickhead or am I just being unreasonable, I just dont know anymore.

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Milkand2sugarsplease · 11/10/2022 23:35

In light of your update I'd be tempted to not give your opinion and make it clear that he needs to make a decision on what he feel is is best as it's not your job to tell him what to do or not do.

It doesn't sound like you'd be missing all that much if he did happen to miss the birth, not exactly coming across as husband of the year who you'd be desperate to have by your side.

MargotChateau · 11/10/2022 23:38

He sounds like an idiot I’d want to divorce

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