My brother married my SIL. We've never clicked but we don't have a bad relationship either. We don't see each other very often as we don't live close.
They have son, my nephew, who is about to turn 3 next week. I asked them what sort of things they want for his birthday and they gave me a list of items, all of them £35+. Is normal or is this a bit cheeky? I know it is my fault for asking in the first place, but I assumed we'd get a bit of a range. I don't know my nephew is into at the moment, so I didn't want to get something he wouldn't like or need.
They don't know our financial situation but we are tight with money (aren't we all?), my husband had to recently take a paycut and I am not a high earner so now I feel like I am forced to spend at least £30 on a present.
AIBU here or am I being just really stingy?
AIBU?
are they being cheeky?
goldandblue · 11/10/2022 12:56
Am I being unreasonable?
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POLLAllthingsbrightandbeautifulx · 11/10/2022 14:23
Playdoh, he’ll love it SIL will hate it 😂
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mam0918 · 11/10/2022 14:44
My eldest when younger distroyed his brand new school schoes but filling them with play doh then ramming his feet in permantly squishing it into every ounce of the fabric.
Never again... its banned in this house lol.
Allthingsbrightandbeautifulx · 11/10/2022 14:23
Playdoh, he’ll love it SIL will hate it 😂
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sandytooth · 11/10/2022 13:08
Also I don't think it is cheeky you're basically asking them to use brainspace so you don't have to think of a gift yourself.
drpet49 · 11/10/2022 17:37
@sandytooth hardly. I bet the majority of parents would rather be asked what their child wants rather than receive a load of useless tat.
sandytooth · 11/10/2022 13:08
Also I don't think it is cheeky you're basically asking them to use brainspace so you don't have to think of a gift yourself.
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