AIBU to be upset by this??? I know it's easy to feel your children have been treated unfairly but I think was was really mean?
ds and another little boy are best friends and they play together every single day at school.
DS kept coming home from school saying "best friend is having a party for his birthday and he said he wants me to come"
And I explained to DS that he needs an invitation to be able to go . DS said other children received an invitation but not him. I thought DS was mistaken about it tbf or that best friend was confused about when his party was.
Then it turns out he did have a party this weekend and plenty of other children were invited but not DS.
It's not a one way friendship or where ds thinks they're best friends but they're not- this little boy always seeks out ds and they play nicely together, the teachers at school say they are best friends and always playing together etc.
The only reason I can think, is my DS older sibling is autistic and they have seen him kicking off (often!) on the way to school/ after school at the playground and seen him being out of school often and made their judgements on us as a family from that.
I feel so upset for DS I feel like he's been deemed not good enough to be this boys friend.
I don't really know many of the school mums from ds year because I am autistic myself so small talk isn't my strong point and also am usually v busy on the school run sorting out other DS because he's often refusing to go in, (but I am friendly and not rude etc) so maybe that's ask part of the reason but surely that's not a reason to exclude a 6 year old??