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To ask about usual chestnut with secondary school decisions
Onthedowns · 06/10/2022 21:21
So we have a realistic choice between two schools. One is an established school historically great academically, recently in 2019 became an academy. School is split into two sites lower (years 7 and 8) and upper. Both old and facilties are there but not great it's an old school, used to be a girls Catholic boarding school - the nuns still live on site. The upper school is in need of refurbishment or rebuilding however they are on the government list for funding for this. (however appreciate current government means this might be delayed!,) This one is a 20mins bus ride away as we are out of catchment. Roughly £80 a term. I love it and my DD does too. Headteacher very welcoming, good structure, discipline. Kids all dressed smartly polite etc
Catchment school 10 min walk. Fantastic top class new facilties. Been an academy for 9 years. However up until earlier this year was in requires improvement. Now is a good school. Historically Academic results are not great,however this could be improving. Was always under subscribed and catchment now opened up. Hasn't the best reputation for discipline and disruptive children etc. Open evening was great but felt like head was selling a product not a school 🤷🏼♀️. Pupils friendly but felt a bit disorganised bit messy etc uniform wise. Didn't hate it didn't love it either. DD hasn't viewed yet. All years in one school and its absolutely huge! Mixed parent reviews
It would make my life easier to go here less costs better facilities. I don't have to worry about ferrying to and from local friends. After school clubs she can walk home.
How much of this makes a difference to parents ? DD is academic but loves sport too. I think she would be ok at local but worry she will just coast rather than be pushed to her best ?
It's giving me such stress deciding
Am I being unreasonable?
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handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 07:48
I know the schools you are talking about. I would say, as others have, it depends whether academic results or pastoral care are more important to you. You may not have any concerns right now, but if you were in need or support for whatever reason - illness / mental health / etc which school would support best? Perhaps ask some questions about behaviour policies, what is the current focus of the school improvement plans, what is the structure of pastoral care? In my experience most kids will do best academically when they are happy and feel cared for... But if they are unhappy, they will not meet their potential.
KatieKat88 · 07/10/2022 07:51
Having taught in a challenging secondary with poor behaviour I would choose the first school. Disruptive behaviour makes everything so much harder for kids who are focused and want to learn. It discourages kids who are a bit more easily swayed and need a solid ethos. It doesn't work for the kids who are disruptive themselves (who do this for a myriad of reasons) as they end up at best underachieving, often in trouble and still hating school.
A solid ethos in a school (not necessarily religious but of hard work and wanting to achieve) is key for me.
OhmygodDont · 07/10/2022 07:51
It’s what ever school will suit her best. You could stick a very smart student in a amazingly high preforming school and they fail due to the pure pressure of the school, you can stick a smart student in an ok school and the thrive. You need to see the support they offer both students and actually the whole family of the students when issues arise.
You need to look at the progress scores. A school going from below to average to above is a school working hard to up its game. A school coasting is coasting basically and will eventually fall behind.
Howmanysleepsnow · 07/10/2022 07:52
When did the SLT change most recently in each? From experience, ofsted will go up or down within a year or two of a change. I’d discount results and inspections that have seen a change since.
id say go by feel, and by what your daughter needs. Does she need strict or supportive? Is she likely to be easily distracted? How important is structure to her? What is most important for her: pastoral care or academia or a range of different activities?
Youaremysunshine14 · 07/10/2022 07:54
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 07:35
Hi yes it is that school.
Majority we know seem to get their campus. But the facilities bus ride etc worry me !
However discipline academia is better
Smithstreet · 07/10/2022 07:30
I think I know where you mean. If it is a school starting with S. If it is be warned that being out of catchment if you get a place it may not be at the site you want but at the other campus in ST further north. They do all come back together at the senior site in S at year 9. This happened to a few people I know, delighted to get in but when they looked closer at the offer it was at the other site which was difficult for transport, friends clubs etc. None went. Apologies if this is the wrong school.
Is your daughter particularly academic? Will she thrive in the kind of school that pushes for results, piles on homework, etc, and where there is also strict discipline? Mine wouldn't, she gets anxious, which is why we sent her somewhere that had good results but also emphasised pastoral care and mental well being.
Also, where are her primary friends going?
nicknamehelp · 07/10/2022 07:59
We live within walking distance which is great when they have to be in early or stay late. Re the starting in year 9 gcses this could easily change by the time your dc picks as ofstead don't like that. Our high school is huge and yes bit daunting at 1st but they soon find their way round and often means more opportunities/choices than a smaller school.
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 08:02
MakkaPakkas · 07/10/2022 07:36
The second sounds like it could be the better one to me.
My question would be why was it in special measures? I'd discount it as a choice if it was for disruption in classes associated with gang related violence or if it was anything to do with drugs or safety of pupils (an issue in some schools near us). This is because the older pupils in the school will be socialised to that situation. If it was because of management etc. I'd seriously consider it.
It was in special measure for about 5 years mixture of teaching and disruption. Still higher absence from certain pupils
Whycanineverever · 07/10/2022 08:03
Check the 3 year GCSE timings . My DD school does a split thing where they do provisional GCSE choices in Y8 and start them in Y9 but crucially they don't drop any key subjects until Y10. This means they get a kind of trial year with a. Completely new subject and if it doesn't work out they can drop it Y10 and just choose options from the core subjects.
Only caveat is they cannot generally add a brand new option subject in Y10 (but one of my DDs friends did - they are generally top sets so maybe they thought they could catch up)
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 08:06
handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 07:48
I know the schools you are talking about. I would say, as others have, it depends whether academic results or pastoral care are more important to you. You may not have any concerns right now, but if you were in need or support for whatever reason - illness / mental health / etc which school would support best? Perhaps ask some questions about behaviour policies, what is the current focus of the school improvement plans, what is the structure of pastoral care? In my experience most kids will do best academically when they are happy and feel cared for... But if they are unhappy, they will not meet their potential.
I think that's a big difference. I think pastoral is needed more at the second school possibly due to the issues it had and still has. Low level disruption absenteeism.
Do you have personal experience of either ?
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 08:07
lannistunut · 07/10/2022 07:41
Sorry, misunderstood that - so they do not select on religious grounds?
You are really not being very clear about the comparative results.
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 07:38
It's not a Catholic school now the old site was. But it's still the old site !! Hence old facilities.
Last results attainment was 1st school 0.25 above average gcse. 2nd school. 0.4 below but 2019
Ebac Higher at seconds school
lannistunut · 07/10/2022 07:16
What does 'academically below average' mean? What are the progress 8 scores?
The catholic school sounds a bit shit, to be honest. It has the advantage of selection on religious grounds so they should have higher marks - but what is the value added score?
Really strict with uniform does not mean a good school, it means a head with the wrong priorities!
No selection on religious grounds but some emphasis on Co of e
Youaremysunshine14 · 07/10/2022 08:10
Also, I would definitely to be open to a school that's turning things around than one that might go into decline under its new academy status. If the SLT have got the 2nd school to good status from requires improvement, they must be doing something right.
EntertainingandFactual · 07/10/2022 08:13
RedWingBoots · 07/10/2022 05:39
There is no point being in a school with good facilities if your classes are disrupted so the teacher can't actually teach you anything.
Sounds like the catchment school is very glossy but I agree with @RedWingBoots .
Facilities add absolutely nothing if nobody can use them properly.
jeaux90 · 07/10/2022 08:21
This is always about your child and not the school, which is best for your DD needs.
If one school is single sex and smaller class sizes then this would be beneficial to most girls.
If she is super confident and sporty she may get on just fine in the catchment school with decent sports facilities
It comes down to what she needs.
MsMcGonagall · 07/10/2022 08:28
take your daughter to see school 2 and see which she prefers.
one of my DC goes to a school sounds similarish to school 1 and the other to one similarish to school 2. They're both in the school they actively wanted to go to, and that suits them, and the other one wouldn't so much.
I do think that distance is important, it's not just about getting there when the buses are cancelled etc, it's also about where all the friends they make are, and how easy it is for them to socialise.
handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 08:38
I work in schools in the area and have friends with children at school S. For those confused, the first school is a C of E school who took over the site of a Catholic school. No connection to that school other than that they now use the buildings!
There has been a lot of change over the last few years including a new head and converting to an academy. The other school has a very different cohort and the challenges are different there. I would say don't assume that pastoral needs are all about free school meals and challenging families - the pastoral care is about how they manage students who are not like the rest in any way - are they flexible, how many parental complaints do they get, how do they respond? What is the tutor system like? Is the first port of call the tutor or the office?
Purrfecto · 07/10/2022 08:52
I much prefer starting GCSE subjects in year 9, unfortunately our school is making the change too but glad it has benefitted us.
My daughter got to drop those subjects she hated and focus on the ones she enjoys. Also for history, Science and English there is so much content, it would be harder over two years.
She will be finished her content a little early and can focus on exam technique etc, much less stress.
I would pick the first school without a doubt, for this reason and the discipline.
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 09:30
handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 08:38
I work in schools in the area and have friends with children at school S. For those confused, the first school is a C of E school who took over the site of a Catholic school. No connection to that school other than that they now use the buildings!
There has been a lot of change over the last few years including a new head and converting to an academy. The other school has a very different cohort and the challenges are different there. I would say don't assume that pastoral needs are all about free school meals and challenging families - the pastoral care is about how they manage students who are not like the rest in any way - are they flexible, how many parental complaints do they get, how do they respond? What is the tutor system like? Is the first port of call the tutor or the office?
It's the lot of change that concerns me also and new head was very good and structured but didn't state any investment was going into the lower school. It's very difficult my DD is very academic and loves sport. So would thrive there I think but would involve me running around more for clubs and friends. It's ipad led learning which I like but again extra costs. A few parents have stated communication isn't great from the school either but it maybe a transition issue with new head etc. Last ofsted was some time ago 2017. Would DD be disadvantaged by the 3 year Gcse but have 4 options so not necessarily missing out
The other school was requires improvement for many years and yes does have a larger cohort of disadvantaged pupils and higher absenteeism. This was reflected in high staff turnover and lower overall gcse results. Historical bad reputation for trouble and disruption .
However larger better modern facilities. More pastoral. Walk to and from school. Appears to be improving last ofsted was 2021. But head didn't fill me with confidence his talk was rushed and felt like a conveyor belt showcasing facilities etc. Spoke to one teacher who also didn't fill me with confidence. However they are forming strong ties with the local private school for learning etc too. I worry DD wouldn't perhaps progress as she might. But options are better through facilities and choice
Oh and I grew up in Foster care and had standard comp education came out with 9 GCSEs c and above and a levels.
So it's not me being a snob !
whenwillthemadnessend · 07/10/2022 09:38
For dd I choose the school with the best pastoral care. And thank god I did. We needed it.
Results mean nothing if your kid is struggling with other teen issues.
She ended up getting great GCSEs despite a ton of issues.
The child you start secondary with very often isn't the child That walks out in year 11.
Go with your gut.
handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 10:08
Are either of them offering day time tours? It is definitely worth looking around not on an open evening - this is very much about presenting the "public face" of the school. An opportunity to chat to staff/students informally allows you to ask about the things that concern you and get a feel for the school. only you will be able to consider what type of child you have and what sort of environment they would thrive in.
The 2/3 yr gcse thing is interesting - most schools moved to this to increase the time spent on gcse subjects to increase results. However this comes at the cost of a shorter ks3 and therefore a reduced "broad and balanced" education - dropping subjects earlier than the DfE plan. Ofsted have said that schools need to be able to show that this is not the case and schools are now looking at returning to a 2yr gcse in fear of ofsted downgrading as they can't evidence this. Most schools in your area do a 3 yr gcse and it is being reviewed at many of them.
The upgrade in Ofsted rating at the second school shows the school is on an upward trajectory - historical problems are not such an issue. But ask them about the things that concern you. How do bright students do - are they challenged? What is their staff turnover like now? What is their focus for improvement?
Onthedowns · 07/10/2022 10:19
handmademitlove · 07/10/2022 10:08
Are either of them offering day time tours? It is definitely worth looking around not on an open evening - this is very much about presenting the "public face" of the school. An opportunity to chat to staff/students informally allows you to ask about the things that concern you and get a feel for the school. only you will be able to consider what type of child you have and what sort of environment they would thrive in.
The 2/3 yr gcse thing is interesting - most schools moved to this to increase the time spent on gcse subjects to increase results. However this comes at the cost of a shorter ks3 and therefore a reduced "broad and balanced" education - dropping subjects earlier than the DfE plan. Ofsted have said that schools need to be able to show that this is not the case and schools are now looking at returning to a 2yr gcse in fear of ofsted downgrading as they can't evidence this. Most schools in your area do a 3 yr gcse and it is being reviewed at many of them.
The upgrade in Ofsted rating at the second school shows the school is on an upward trajectory - historical problems are not such an issue. But ask them about the things that concern you. How do bright students do - are they challenged? What is their staff turnover like now? What is their focus for improvement?
Yes we have done 3 tours on first school day and eve. We have open morning booked next week for 2nd school with dd.
I have looked at the GCSEs and currently only one in our area doing 3 years is the 1st school. It could also be a sticking point for us. As 1st school hasn't any intention of changing currently.
2nd school has started strong ties to prominent local private school for oxbridge tutoring. Dd would love the sports facilities etc too.
But Low level disruption and lack of discipline worries me
lannistunut · 07/10/2022 10:30
Maybe the reason you can't decide easily is that both are fine. Not everything has to be a major life changing decision and as the biggest single factor which will impact a child's outcomes is home, the difference between decent school A and decent school B must be marginal.
In which case, if I was being pragmatic I would either pick the one that would benefit the rest of her life the most (easy commute, local friends are worth a lot) or I would just apply for the one that is hardest to get into because then if it turns out to be crap you have a higher chance of getting a speedy transfer to the other, and if it turns out to be good then that's all fine.
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