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it's daft to think parents with kids in private school have money to burn?

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Popgoestheweaselagain · 29/09/2022 13:04

Just got asked by my school what would be the impact if they had to pay VAT, adding 20% to fees. My response was 'I'd try to keep my child in the school, but ....'. I think almost all parents would respond this way. Alarmed, did a quick google, and found this is Labour policy. Next time they come knocking at my door looking for my vote, I'll be telling them why they can't have it!

Now, I understand why some people are ideologically opposed to private schools, the unfariness etc. But when I hear this argument that goes something like 'Those people must have loads of money because they send their kids to private school' it kind of annoys me. Money is finite. If you've spent all your money on school fees, you obviously don't have it anymore!

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Blankscreen · 29/09/2022 18:20

The irony is that Keir Starmer himself went to Reigate Grammar school which is fee paying!!!

I don't know his story other than he was saying he came from a working class back ground so presume he was there on a bursary the availability of which would probably be vastly reduced if he goes ahead with this plan

VaccineSticker · 29/09/2022 18:21

A good 15-20% of families won’t be able to afford the rise in fees and will have to move to state schools. Can’t wait to see how they will find extra more places at the already oversubscribed state schools- especially accommodating the SEND children. It is a very shortsighted policy. They should fix the state school system before they start breaking the private sector. It is policies like this that make them come across as vindictive.

mathsgirl12 · 29/09/2022 18:22

One of the arguments used repeatedly is that private schools generate inequality. My childen were in classes of 40 at primary, their cousins school, the maximum number per class was 24. The only local state secondary school has 12 form entry. We have no local sixth form. The nearest being two bus journeys away. There is inequality everywhere, even in the state sector.

Nesbo · 29/09/2022 18:23

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/09/2022 18:20

With a household income like that, presumably you had a lot of choice about where to buy your house and I'd be surprised if you didn't think about what the local schools were like.

We live in London, so not that much choice when we bought! Our aspirations extended to checking there were some schools nearby rated “good” by ofsted- that was about it.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/09/2022 18:25

Blankscreen · 29/09/2022 18:20

The irony is that Keir Starmer himself went to Reigate Grammar school which is fee paying!!!

I don't know his story other than he was saying he came from a working class back ground so presume he was there on a bursary the availability of which would probably be vastly reduced if he goes ahead with this plan

@Blankscreen, it was a state grammar school when he started there. It went back to being a fee-paying school, as it had been earlier in its history, when the 11+ was abolished halfway through his secondary career. I was in a similar position to Sir Keir when my school went from being a direct grant school to independent when Labour abolished the direct grant, and my free place (effectively a 100% scholarship) continued. I can't believe the Starmers were required to pay fees.

MarshaBradyo · 29/09/2022 18:27

VaccineSticker · 29/09/2022 18:21

A good 15-20% of families won’t be able to afford the rise in fees and will have to move to state schools. Can’t wait to see how they will find extra more places at the already oversubscribed state schools- especially accommodating the SEND children. It is a very shortsighted policy. They should fix the state school system before they start breaking the private sector. It is policies like this that make them come across as vindictive.

Blair managed to take the country with his policies without being vindictive

Starmer doesn’t need this, maybe back when he wasn’t doing well but now he can try to do a Blair

He uses his quotes anyway so may as well go further

MaybeIWillFuckOffThen · 29/09/2022 18:28

Sallyandsam · 29/09/2022 17:24

People who buy expensive houses close to outstanding schools are also buying an advantage for their kids. Parents who send their kids to swimming, football, ballet or get tutors are also buying an advantage for their kids.

Should all clubs, tutors and paid for out-of-school activities also be band?

No but expensive houses and private businesses offering tutoring and sports training etc should be taxed. Oh no wait. They are.

LuffleGro · 29/09/2022 18:29

absolutelyanythingwilldo · 29/09/2022 17:04

On the off chance this isn't a troll post. The cost would be £3.7 billion (not million).

And the total cost of education is around £42 billion.

Sorry, shouldn't have done that in such a rush but the £100,000,000 is what the IFS says here: ifs.org.uk/publications/2021-annual-report-education-spending-england

LuffleGro · 29/09/2022 18:32

Dorisbonson · 29/09/2022 16:58

So you would rather I didnt pay for private education and then the state would have fewer resources? Explain how that benefits my child or any other children? Im not seeing the logic here.

That's probably because you haven't had to spend time in schools with the children left behind when all the wealthy kids go to private or grammar schools. It makes a massive difference to the school.

Pottedpalm · 29/09/2022 18:35

5zeds · 29/09/2022 13:41

They AREN’T charities and they shouldn’t be exempt from tax. I’m with Labour on this one and if they sort out their thinking on gender I’ll vote for them.

The majority of private schools have charitable status; they do not operate at a profit

Plantstrees · 29/09/2022 18:35

BigWoollyJumpers · 29/09/2022 13:34

Universities are private - they don't pay VAT either.

Any institution providing education or training is exempt. I don't think that should change regardless. They do not make profit in the sense of shareholders, any profit goes back into the institution. Be careful of what you wish for....

Education’ is defined by HMRC as a course, class or lesson of instruction or study in any subject, regardless of when and where it takes place. It includes lectures, educational seminars, conferences and symposia, recreational and sporting courses, and distance teaching and associated materials

I was going to say the same.

Also, there is a complete misunderstanding on MN regarding VAT and charitable status - the two are not connected.

Educational supplies (materials or services) are exempt from VAT. To charge VAT on school fees the Government would have to change the policy and then VAT would become chargeable on everything educational including university fees, educational books and supplies etc so every state school kid would suffer too. Our state schools can't afford books, educational materials etc as it is, how do you think an extra 20% on the cost is going to help.

Charitable status means the organisation is exempt from paying
Corporation Tax on charitable activities (but do have to pay tax on any activities that are not charitable). Removing charitable status will not mean that private schools have to start charging VAT. It is irrelevant!

LuffleGro · 29/09/2022 18:37

Blankscreen · 29/09/2022 18:20

The irony is that Keir Starmer himself went to Reigate Grammar school which is fee paying!!!

I don't know his story other than he was saying he came from a working class back ground so presume he was there on a bursary the availability of which would probably be vastly reduced if he goes ahead with this plan

He passed the 11-plus examination and gained entry to Reigate Grammar School, then a voluntary aided selective grammar school.[11] It was converted into an independent fee-paying school in 1976, while he was a student, although he was exempt from paying fees.

WantToKnowAnswers · 29/09/2022 18:40

And so what? Honestly I am sick of feeling guilty about doing well.

Same here. Instead of coming after parents who have got on in life and invest that money in their DC, why don’t people do what DH and I did.

We are both from northern WC estates, went to Uni and worked jobs to help pay for it as our parents couldn’t give us any money. Then we both moved to London to get good jobs. Then we lived and worked abroad for nearly 2 decades. We both work but my DH has a 3 hour daily commute and is away from home up to 2 weeks a month.

As a result we are able to send our DC to a private school. It’s paid off too. Eldest just aced his GCSE’s.

Are you prepared to put yourself out to get on like we’ve done?

LookingforMaryPoppins · 29/09/2022 18:40

This is a poorly thought out policy!

In an ideal world there would be sufficient state school places for children of school age, state schools would be adequately funded and all provide a good level of education enabling each child to achieve the best of their ability.

The reality is there are insufficient places, schools have been woefully underfunded for over a decade and the emphasis is all about meeting the band of expectation - no incentive whatsoever to exceed expectation.

Children attending independent schools are not all from wealthy families. A large proportion are from fairly normal earning families but who work additional hours/ jobs and go without luxuries to be able to pay the fees. There are also children who are on scholarships and bursaries.

The genuinely wealthy families will simply pay the extra fees and life continues as normal. These people are a minority.

The families that go without luxuries to pay will in all likelihood be priced out, scholarships and bursaries will be a thing of the past with the loss of charitable status.

State schools have not been promised extra funding and there is already a shortage of places. How will extra places be created other than increasing class sizes? Let's also not forget the parents paying for independent education are still financially contributing to the state system.

If the necessary investment was made into the state system and every child had the opportunity to attend a good school with good facilities and opportunity to achieve the best of their ability then there would be no need for independent schools - other than for the super wealthy who will follow that route regardless. Only at that stage woukd the argument to tax the school fees make economic sense. To do so without the state system being overhauled first would remove the little social mobility that remains.

My three children all went to the local state school, I was morally against independent schools. Through various circumstances I witnessed first hand how easy it is for the state system to fail certain children - and the ridiculous strain it is under. We moved all three of our children to an independent school as a result and have never regretted doing so - although the financial strain was crippling.

It wasn't a luxury, it was necessity for each of them to have the opportunity to achieve the best of their ability.

The elder two are now back in the state system - they both were fortunate to be offered places at fantastic state secondaries. My youngest has a few years left at primary, whether she remains in independent school very much depends on which state school she is offered for secondary.

The policy should be raising the bar and the provision of a first class education available for all - only when that has been achieved should they look to impose tax on school fees (ie when choosing to educate independently genuinely is a luxury).

MaybeIWillFuckOffThen · 29/09/2022 18:40

ClocksGoingBackwards · 29/09/2022 17:31

They can do whatever they can with the options available to them. Some will be able to put time and effort into supplementing their children’s education to great effect. Others will be unable to do that for whatever reason and their children will not receive the education they deserve from either their school or their parents. Should the former group be prevented from doing the best for their own children just for the sake of making sure they only get the same level of opportunity as the latter group?

Anyway, plenty of state school children already have their education supplemented by their parents. It has never meant that they are more worthy than children with parents who are less well off.

There are inequalities that can be controlled for (food poverty and its impact on educational attainment for example) and those that can't (parental education level and its impact on attainment for example). We can certainly work towards eliminating the option for some kids to be provided with a significantly better educational experience (within an institution that by its very existence has a negative impact on the state system) simply because their parents have more money.

I just don't think it's reasonable to shrug and say "life's not fair, so what" for poor kids any more than it was when e.g. public transport was completely inaccessible to the disabled. We have a responsibility to try an break down barriers and level up inequalities. I find it amazing that some people really think life should be a lottery of birth and devil take the hindmost - even when the hindmost are disadvantaged CHILDREN.

SparklyLeprechaun · 29/09/2022 18:41

It's a purely populist policy that will have no impact on government finances nor on social inequality. Those truly rich will continue to pay and not feel the pinch, a higher proportion will still pay whilst making cuts elsewhere and some will not be able to pay anymore and move to state. In the end, it's those well off but not well off enough that will be hit the hardest, and the inequality will increase. The government will gain a remedial amount in VAT and will be able to make a big deal of the way they tackle inequality in education.

TheHateIsNotGood · 29/09/2022 18:41

I don't think Private Schols should have Charitable Status but should operate under as similar Tax Rules as State Schools as much as possible, which doesn't include charging VAT to educate children.

This doesn't mean I have much sympathy for Private School Parents because I don't, but charging VAT for Education is not on.

I'd no idea Keir went to Reigate Grammar School - it wasn't always fee-paying but used to be a State Grammar for Boys, the Girls went to Reigate County School. Both were transitioned to other sectors with their abolition in the 1970s, the Girls' School becoming a State Co-Ed 6th Form College and the Boys' going Private, eventually becoming Co-Ed.

I went to The County in the 70s as one of the last 3 years so I really do know. Maybe Keir didn't pay fees but passed the Old 11+?

OriginalUsername3 · 29/09/2022 18:44

Yeah and if I spent all my money on a labourghini I wouldn't have any either. (I'd also have a shit tonne of debt but this is hypothetical). Having spent all your money doesn't mean you don't have more money. You have places you can cut expenses and still live a comfortable life. There are people on here talking about wearing hats and gloves inside and using tealights to warm up, I'm not particularly sympathetic to your "if our private school fees go up by 20% I'd be a bit worse off" whinge.

KittyKel · 29/09/2022 18:45

I don’t understand who this benefits, parents who pay for private school fees are most likely high earners who pay a lot of tax towards the state school system, which they don’t then utilise.

By making private school education unaffordable, it surely burdens the state school system even more as these children would then go into the state system taking places they otherwise wouldn’t.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/09/2022 18:49

In the brave new world where more people are priced out of independent schools, I hope we see a levelling up, now down. One of the reasons we sent our son to an independent school was because we wanted him to have a broad-based curriculum where he could take triple science GCSE, more than one modern language if he wanted to, and also get good teaching in music, Art, DT and PE. Very few of our local comprehensive schools could have guaranteed that at the time. As well as benefitting the individual student, the UK economy needs linguists, musicians, artists, sportspeople and people with an excellent grounding in STEM.

magicofthefae · 29/09/2022 18:50

cloutneerbeout · 29/09/2022 13:09

I mean if this issue is more important to you than children going hungry and people being able to heat their homes whilst the top 1% get a tax cut then congrats, you are all the stereotypes of private school parents.

Well said, I'm so disturbed that she would rather children go hungry (truss), if it means she continues to get VAT off, on her child's luxury/premium range educational fees.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/09/2022 18:50

*not (not 'now'). Sigh.

VioletInsolence · 29/09/2022 18:50

My son was privately educated from Years 4 - 11 and was a single parent on benefits. A lot of the kids at smaller and slightly cheaper independent schools are there because they’re neurodiverse and state schools aren’t suitable. Private education isn’t necessarily a luxury unless children being happy and well cared for is a luxury.

This is a controversial view but I think that families like ours should be given the money that the government is saving by us taking our kids out of state schools.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/09/2022 18:52

TheHateIsNotGood · 29/09/2022 18:41

I don't think Private Schols should have Charitable Status but should operate under as similar Tax Rules as State Schools as much as possible, which doesn't include charging VAT to educate children.

This doesn't mean I have much sympathy for Private School Parents because I don't, but charging VAT for Education is not on.

I'd no idea Keir went to Reigate Grammar School - it wasn't always fee-paying but used to be a State Grammar for Boys, the Girls went to Reigate County School. Both were transitioned to other sectors with their abolition in the 1970s, the Girls' School becoming a State Co-Ed 6th Form College and the Boys' going Private, eventually becoming Co-Ed.

I went to The County in the 70s as one of the last 3 years so I really do know. Maybe Keir didn't pay fees but passed the Old 11+?

Yes, he passed the 11+. Easily checked.

MaybeIWillFuckOffThen · 29/09/2022 18:55

PixellatedPixie · 29/09/2022 17:49

Do you guys also think private medical care is unfair? I have private medical aid and it is totally unfair. If I get diagnosed with a terrible illness I can see specialists before people who rely on the NHS BUT private healthcare is VAT exempt. Also, by paying for private healthcare I free up space in the NHS.

Healthcare is arguably even more important than education as your education is useless if you’re dead! So you could argue private healthcare is totally unfair and should be abolished.

Yup it should.

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