Emma, thanks for questioning that, I was tired and a bit facitious. I too am a child of immigrants who grew up in Sweden but have spent a lot of my adult life in the UK. I definitely didn't mean that any bar should be lowered, but was flippantly trying to point out that this is where Sweden comes unstuck, and is confounded by the expectation of 'our way' or no way. The ease with which communities coexist in the UK is not as palpable is Sweden, in my opinion, where central insistence on assimilation perceives individuals and communities who distance themselves from Swedish societal norms as an affront to Swedish hospitality.
Working closely with urban immigrant communities in the UK throughout my professional life, I have often been horrified at the ease with which issues of safeguarding or inequality, which may have their roots in the short-comings of integration support in the UK, are occasionally approached through a "well, it's a cultural thing" lense and an inclination to not apply the same rigour of scrutiny or even curiosity from behind the blinkers of 'each to their own'. 'Allowances' are made. This is clearly unsafe.
In comparison, similar issues are less likely to be passed over in Sweden where integration has been felt to be such a baseline requirement for successful participation in society and the capacity of the state to safeguard the individual.
When integration is seen to be lacking, whether as a result of government policy (housing, for instance) or on the part of the individual, it's percieved as an engagement-gap, and culturally, this is incompatible with the Swedish social model.
My experience is that Swedes are, if there is such a thing as a broad brush national trait, political. Not merely party political, but generally fully conversant and engaged in the 'deep' politics of a life lived in a society where so much energy is spent on collectivism and cohesion. Failure to 'buy in' is definitely frowned upon.
This is hard to convey to people who have not experienced it first hand.