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To feel WFH has had its day a bit?

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Seaswimminginwinter · 23/09/2022 06:10

Bosses think workers do less from home - bbc article

My job doesn’t lend itself to WFH but I have noticed on nearly every thread on here about WFH, people insist that they are more productive. However, I have to admit that this doesn’t match with my experiences. But I am one person so maybe I’ve been unlucky, except this article is quite interesting about perceptions.

I also think it changes homes and areas. My own DH is WFH today and it is my day off, meaning I will spend it feeling as f I am I the way in my own home. Homes aren’t meant to be offices.

I get there are advantages but overall I don’t think it works well at all.

OP posts:
mewkins · 23/09/2022 11:20

Wherearemymarbles · 23/09/2022 10:59

I wfh 1 day a week often on Friday. The nature of my job allows me to arrange my week and morning so that basically from lunch onwards i am monitoring emails only. If something comes up then i work.

i think biggest problem with wfh is the temptation that if you finish a piece of work at 4pm then its job done, down tools. Whereas as if you’re in the office then you find something else to do.

Or just faff about on the Internet watching the clock til home time😂

DillDanding · 23/09/2022 11:20

I get twice as much done when I wfh and do a far longer day.

if I go into the office I waste so much time chatting and mooching around the shops.

foliageeverywhere · 23/09/2022 11:22

ShandaLear · 23/09/2022 11:10

I’m an academic and work from home except when I’m teaching or having a face to face meetings. I work best - marking, research, preparing lectures - in a quiet space free from interruption (my home office) and go into work when I fancy a chat or catch-up. Definitely less work gets done then, though I suppose you could call it team building!

Snap - going into work are definitely days I slack off, as otherwise you're being aggressively antisocial (and rude to anyone junior who wants to ask a "quick" question)

urgen · 23/09/2022 11:24

Many people do say that they can put a wash on, pick up the children, even give them their tea and then make up the hours. I am convinced they dont do this. When you are client facing for example it is no good being available at 1900 when everyone has gone home.

Icanstillrecallourlastsummer · 23/09/2022 11:24

foliageeverywhere · 23/09/2022 11:22

Snap - going into work are definitely days I slack off, as otherwise you're being aggressively antisocial (and rude to anyone junior who wants to ask a "quick" question)

me too. Well not quite slacking off, but I never plan to expect to do concentration type work (I'm a lawyer, so do quite a bit of it) when I go into the office, I treat it purely as a chance to see people and do the relationship building/ socialising aspects you tend to do f2f, and meetings. I do tend to get quite a bit done on the train though - no internet and therefore no incoming emails is great for concentration!

Icanstillrecallourlastsummer · 23/09/2022 11:25

urgen · 23/09/2022 11:24

Many people do say that they can put a wash on, pick up the children, even give them their tea and then make up the hours. I am convinced they dont do this. When you are client facing for example it is no good being available at 1900 when everyone has gone home.

You are convinced wrong then.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 23/09/2022 11:31

Complete nonsense!! I find the office difficult as people keep coming up to me asking me for stuff and can i do this that the other and then I'm just sitting there doing bits of this and that and struggling to complete things.

At home I get so much more done as i focus on things no distraction at all have my music on and I'm so much more productive tbh!!

QOD · 23/09/2022 11:31

I hate it
boring and lonely, i have no flexibility as have to work certain hours

staff turnover is now MASSIVE as new starters are given all the spiel about "huntlines" and asking questions on teams but the reality is that no one answers super quick and they are left panicked and dangling.
I also genuinely worry about the youngsters who face a life of wfh in their bedroom, not meeting real people and forming friendships with people in the canteen or by the water cooler etc
combination yes, permanent forced on you, no

Dutch1e · 23/09/2022 11:31

Maymaymay · 23/09/2022 10:02

I'm sure people who are ambitious are doing a great job, unfortunately not everyone is.

I've seen threads on here with tips on how to look like you are working (mouse on mirror, gadgets brought from amazon) when you are napping and not working.

Companies aren't running properly on ground level. My friend works in insurance and does everything she can to not answer the phone.

It now takes 21 days to hear back from my local council as noone is on the phone, it took 3 months to get registered with my energy company. Their phone lines still blame covid.

It's not working.

I agree, although there must be some responsibility laid at the feet of the people who (still) think you can just replicate an office or classroom environment by plonking it online.

Fully remote businesses and schools have very different processes and procedures.... we Home Ed and I work fully remotely so when the lockdowns first began I honestly thought that homeschooling groups and fully remote companies would be swamped with requests for advice on how to make this work. Not a peep.

Noviembre · 23/09/2022 11:33

Our entire organisation is Pan-European and we have never had an office. Everyone's in different countries. We were WFH before the pandemic.

No problems with productivity here. But then it's a very skilled, desirable role and people work hard, take pride in it and don't take the piss.

DeepDown12 · 23/09/2022 11:33

My department is WFH (we do offer office space for those who'd rather do that - even pay co-working spaces for those who moved away but vast majority WFH fully). Our productivity increased a lot since this was introduced. As someone mentioned before - employees do a lot of international calls across several time-zones and this way they're happy to take a call at 6am and then another at 8pm but make a big break in the middle or do whatever suits them. We don't take notice when they logged in/out. I genuinely don't care and wouldn't blink if someone watched an entire movie during regular working hours provided they are still delivering what we need them to on time.

kc431 · 23/09/2022 11:33

Fupoffyagrasshole · 23/09/2022 11:31

Complete nonsense!! I find the office difficult as people keep coming up to me asking me for stuff and can i do this that the other and then I'm just sitting there doing bits of this and that and struggling to complete things.

At home I get so much more done as i focus on things no distraction at all have my music on and I'm so much more productive tbh!!

But those people asking you questions are probably junior and exactly the ones struggling at home as they’re stuck and can’t get hold of anyone. Your “distracted” is their “essential help”. As a junior this is one of many reasons I hate WFH - people I want to ask questions have Teams on busy/do not disturb all day, and I sit there stuck on tasks unable to ask for help. In the office I can ask in 2 minutes and get way more done.

JassyRadlett · 23/09/2022 11:35

I don't understand why those same companies find it so difficult to set reasonable targets for whatever the work is and then talk to employees if they're not met. WFH doesn't change that basic practice. But I guess it's easier to moan on the radio.

Yep. Companies moaning because employees don't want to be micromanaged remotely are announcing they have really shit management and value presenteeism over productivity and results.

Honestly - if my team are meeting (high and usually stretching) targets and expectations, both in terms of outputs and behaviours, I don't give a shit if they're sitting in front of their laptop for every minute of the day or not, or whether they've nipped out for a run or whatever.

If they're delivering what is expected of them, and those expectations are appropriate for what the organisation needs to meet its goals, then more power to them if they can tie it all up faster and go for a run or whatever.

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 23/09/2022 11:38

MossGrowsFat · 23/09/2022 08:58

Not at all. I work with students entering the work place, the only ones WFH works for are those that are already privileged and able.

Firstly privileged as they need a quiet room, decent broadband, able because they need to be at a certain academic level to cope with the remoteness and extra skills that WFH require, the lack of direct support and building of relationship.

WFH will alienate a large proportion of the workforce, whilst some employers manage to be successful it requires time money and investment, something which most employers are not doing.

You mention people who are not NT, whilst there are benefits these people often need extra support put in place, when they are WFH it is easy to miss the adjustments they need.

You say not at all, but then you completely ignore the examples I mentioned of young people who were and would be excluded from jobs requiring traditional workplace attendance models due to caring responsibilities and geographical location, who aren't now. Clearly neither of these particular limitations are a privilege, and they don't become less potentially exclusionary because there exist people who have housing in more expensive areas but not broadband, for example.

Essentially what you are saying is the same point as mine. That different models work for different people, and that it's ridiculous to generalise that all people at a certain stage are better off with one model.

I take your point about adjustments, but the fact remains that some types of neurodiversity, disability and health condition will in themselves prevent those experiencing them from being able to work at all in jobs that require the work to be done in a specific location. Those of you talking up the advantages of workplace attendance for some young people need to acknowledge that cohort too.

Crikeyalmighty · 23/09/2022 11:40

It works well for some, not so well for others , depends on job and domestic situation and to be honest the personality and work ethic too and how much you like your job and value it. To be honest I've noticed that anything that involves call centre type activity, the service is pretty dire, but I don't know if this is the individuals slacking off or a lack of staff post Brexit and covid

Icanstillrecallourlastsummer · 23/09/2022 11:45

Many, although of course not all, people who provide call centre services from home are not paid loads and often don't have a proper working space and facilities. These things are important for WFH. You can't just expect employees to set up on their sofa and be productive.

Crikeyalmighty · 23/09/2022 11:49

@Icanstillrecallourlastsummer I think that's part of the issue- I've had calls with TV on in background, kids coming up to the parent, dogs barking etc- I appreciate that's life but it's not ideal for either worker or customer and gives a poor impression too

theemmadilemma · 23/09/2022 11:57

I've been wfh since 2018 at which time the company I work for was already issuing laptops/headsets with a view to equiping people to work from home, and slowly closing smaller (aquired) offices and allowing remote working.

My whole team has been remote since 2019 and I've noticed no real difference in productivity from those I worked in an office with previously. My offshore team is obviously different, but I can tell if they are productive or not easily enough from various system checks.

Over the past few years I would think we've moved to a nearly 70% wfh model globally, and other than keeping central offices open in major cities, the vast majority of staff now work remotely.

It did become difficult in Covid lockdown with DH starting to WFH as well, and not enough space for two offices. The person in the living area was constantly intruded on in reality, and long term I don't think it's productive to not have a completely seperate living/working area.

We have since moved and both have our own office where we wfh, some days I won't see DH from am to until he finishes for the day. It works well for everyone I know.

SisterBeaverhausen · 23/09/2022 12:08

Works for me. It means I'm more flexible with childcare and appointments.

As someone with a heart condition on days I'm not well enough to leave the house I can still work. When I was on bed rest for the last 7 weeks of my pregnancy I could still work from bed.

I can do housework on my lunch break which means my evenings are free. I don't have to be distracted by Co workers who want "a quick chat"

My office has closed down so I don't gave a choice but I prefer it.

LifeIsaRollerCoaster1 · 23/09/2022 13:11

Works great for me, I work with people scattered all over the country, if I commuted into my office (a 90 min journey by bus/train) I'd be doing exactly the same thing (no one I work with there in person) but in an open plan office with other people there to distract/make noise. I work 7.30-5.30 4 days a week so I only need childcare 4 days a week. Even doing compressed hours my day is shorter than how long I'd be out the house 5 days a week if I commuted in. I have no one to talk to during the day, I work between meetings and meetings never involve small talk at the start as they do in person, we just get on. We are definitely more productive but we are happier as work/life balance is far better. As a full time working parent to 3 young children it makes it possible for me to work full time and not be completely absent all morning/evening 5 days a week. My commuting time is spent with my children.

Ohtsd · 23/09/2022 13:21

Wherearemymarbles · 23/09/2022 11:04

Oh, andi love the office its a fun place to be.
mv wife is the same and actually left her last job because it became fully remote and absolutely hated being at home alone 5 days a week.

wfh suits some but not others.

Yes, I retired when I had to WFH, I was working part time and was intending to work until 66 but instead as I hated WFH I retired at 62

RedAppleGirl · 23/09/2022 13:42

LolaDrek · 23/09/2022 09:16

I started a new role in February and I’m technically hybrid but as a knock-on to wfh policies we now recruit anywhere in the country for a team that used to be based in one office. This is the bit I really don’t like. I go into the office, I sit on my own because no one else in my team is in my office and most of the time I speak to no one. I then go on zoom all day just like I was at home. I may as well be totally wfh. I have all the disadvantages of having to go into the office a couple of days a week but non of the advantages you would normally get.

Thing is I’d love to be actually hybrid and see my team 2/3 days a week. I really miss talking to people face to face. The quick 5 second question or reassurance that I’m doing something right or “can I just show you my screen?” No quick questions to my manager anymore or scooting across to ask someone a question.

instead we setup zoom calls with every man and his dog to answer a question that could be done in 30 seconds if we were in same office in an attempt to make sure everyone is included and we have lots of meetings to “keep in touch” and “make sure everyone feels involved” which means 40 minutes of talking that mostly is irrelevant to me so I find it really hard not to switch off and miss the bits that are relevant to me. A simple question has to be an email which sometimes takes 48 hours for a reply which slows things down massively and as a new person can you make feel reluctant to ask because there’s your potentially stupid question in black and white whereas before you could just ask the question to the person sat next to you. I’ve also found that sometimes people are doing things wrong and it takes forever for someone to notice because there are no casual conversations around the work. No one ever overhears you talking about a piece of work and says “oh I think I could help with that I’ve done x” you only get help when you formally reach out for it. this company has a huge focus on development but I’m still learning much slower than I ever did in prior jobs.

also we don’t pick up on peoples mental health. Someone who’s feeling unwell but not unwell enough to need time off can go unnoticed or if they are overworked again no one notices until they reach out and by that point they may be quite stressed which could of been avoided.

I personally also find it really hard to concentrate on zoom compared to face to face meetings.

I don’t know what the answer is here. If they forced everyone back into the office full time at my place it wouldn’t solve my issue. And i know it wouldn’t be right for everyone.

and I miss the social side. I’ve been at my current job 7 months and I could move cities and no one in my office would even notice. That’s really bloody depressing.

Cant, you call your team members? We socialize as a group too. We just arrange it. No other teams are involved.
No enforced socializing with others.

trusslepuff · 23/09/2022 14:08

Urgh I wfh in an office that would never allow half the shit that goes on at some of the places I have to contact.
Just got off the phone to hsbc and so many dc in the background crying on the call. On top of that the lady I was speaking to desperately was trying to get me off the phone but I'd held for so long I needed to keep asking about it. Then because I was clearly taking too long with my query they quickly redirected me to an incorrect department abruptly disconnecting me with her. I know full well she's now not working.

a1poshpaws · 23/09/2022 14:16

Sorry, haven't got time to read the rest of the thread, just been through page 1, but I wanted to pop in to say - WFH massively benefits air quality and the environment, as fewer people drive or use public transport, thereby cutting the necessary numbers of buses or trains running, and keeping roads free of polluting traffic jams. 🙃

Intothewoodland · 23/09/2022 14:20

It has its place but so does working in the office. I have applied for a job where I will be expected to go into the office a couple of days a week and work from home a few days a week. Both elements of the working arrangements would be beneficial to me. I feel it would be important for me to get to know colleagues and bounce ideas off of other people. Equally being at home would mean I could take my children to after school activities and actually see them during the week. Something that 100% in the office would not allow.

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