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To ask for some psychic woo/bored guesses to help me locate my husband’s wedding band?

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 20:44

My husband has lost his wedding band and I said maybe we could speak to a medium/psychic to find it….well seeing as I have a quiet Saturday night ahead (he’s gone out) does anyone fancy a guess to where it may be…bored guesses welcome but woo woo guesses definitely invited 😎

yabu - just look for it with your actual eyes instead of slobbing on the sofa!
yanbu - woo is the way!

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PineappleVision · 17/09/2022 22:37

Found mine recently after it had been missing for several years. Was in a drawer of a table.

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 22:39

@Inklingpot stranger things, and all that! Also, I have a list now, quite a few places I wouldn’t of thought of :)

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 22:41

@PineappleVision glad you were reunited, wedding rings can be so sentimental x

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 22:42

@PestoPasghetti we don’t have a wine rack but loving the random reappearance for you!

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Antarcticant · 17/09/2022 22:44

A tip I read on here which has worked for me and other posters - more often than not, the missing thing is in the place you'd first thought it would be, but you've missed it. So wherever it is you first look - check, check and check again.

Population51201 · 17/09/2022 22:45

Behind the rear right leg of the left hand side bedside cabinet

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 22:47

@667TheNeighbourOfTheBeast adding it to the list thank you!

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GroggyLegs · 17/09/2022 22:47

Inspired by my own stupid places to put precious things 'to keep them safe'

In a tub of sweets/chewing gum in the car
On a keyring
Hanging on an ornament on the chest of drawers
Key pocket of gym shorts/ cycling leggings/sportswear
The bowl by the door with keys & change.

🤞🤞

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 22:49

@Jedsnewstar tried the blue shoe, no luck but thank you :)

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TERFwithAcat · 17/09/2022 22:56

Did you try mine? Old cost pocket

TERFwithAcat · 17/09/2022 22:56

Coat

threepointonefourone · 17/09/2022 22:59

AFTER I had bought 2 replacements (a pound shop cheapie to go to a family wedding with, and then when it became clear it REALLY wasn’t going to turn up, a proper, cost as much as the original)

I found my wedding ring under the bed.

id already looked under there several times, I think it must have rolled under the bedside table, then maybe the cat batted it out. Was very odd and. Now have 2 near identical rings. I can tell them apart, but no one else can.

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:01

@TERFwithAcat yes, I’ve tried the ones in the house, but there may be one in the car still to try, thank you! I have MS fatigue so can’t keep up with the thread as well as I would like but appreciate all of the ideas and suggestions!

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TERFwithAcat · 17/09/2022 23:03

It's an old, and very cold (possibly in the attic or the like), coat. In the front pocket

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:03

@threepointonefourone oh no, very costly but I’m glad you have the original back. Does it feel differently to you, more sentimental?

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Coffeenoww · 17/09/2022 23:13

Jiggled down into the bottom of the laundry basket?

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:16

@TERFwithAcat I found his arctic coat and couldn’t see or feel it in all the pockets, I think just one left to check in the car :)

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:17

@Coffeenoww we’ve had a look already in the laundry but thank you :)

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:21

@Population51201 so specific I had to try it, no ring but lots of empty chocolate wrappers! Haha!

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allboysherebutme · 17/09/2022 23:21

You mentioned he does sports, does he do it at the gym. ? Could he have left it there. X

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:22

@GroggyLegs so safe! Sounds like something he would do, just need to find his safe spots!

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:24

@allboysherebutme that’s a very real possibility, I will get him to look into this, at his gym and sports hall to check, thanks for the suggestion. Could be a Good Samaritan has handed it in :)

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WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:26

@Antarcticant that’s the bathroom, he has a box of deodorant, shower gel etc I’ve looked through but not tipped it all out as I didn’t want to feel like I was in his personal space. Will go through it with him tomorrow :)

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Antarcticant · 17/09/2022 23:27

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:26

@Antarcticant that’s the bathroom, he has a box of deodorant, shower gel etc I’ve looked through but not tipped it all out as I didn’t want to feel like I was in his personal space. Will go through it with him tomorrow :)

Tip it out with him tomorrow. If this rule holds good, that's where it will be,

WheelyMom · 17/09/2022 23:28

@Custardandcreamp reusable bags is a good shout, I’m running out of steam today so off to bed but will add it to the list for tomorrow thank you :)

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