Just to be clear my daughter was not in the running and is in a lower year group. It is a primary school, year 6. The new Head Girl is more of an all rounder than an academic. No idea how they make these decisions, but, regardless feel that there is a massive conflict on interest. AIBU?
AIBU?
Head girl at my daughter's school is Head Mistress's daughter.
StrawberryPims · 17/09/2022 13:32
Am I being unreasonable?
613 votes. Final results.
POLLStrawberryPims · 17/09/2022 14:32
Really interesting to read all the different points of view on both sides. Some really valid points I hadn’t considered raised.
I think what has raised eyebrows more, is that there tends to be an air of favouritism generally in the school, towards children of teachers and PTA members children too. Favouritism for school prizes, prominent school play positions, special awards created for certain favoured children. In all honesty, her DD seems a nice enough girl but does not outwardly stand out strongly in any particular way. She’s very confident though. It’s a private school. I don’t know for sure but presumably her children are being educated for free there.
Zone2NorthLondon · 17/09/2022 15:49
At my kids school it’s the children of the alpha mums in the PTA who get picked and get the leading roles etc
StrawberryPims · 17/09/2022 13:43
There is no student vote. I assume voted by her teachers perhaps. Not sure what the Heads actual involvement is in the process to be honest. Not really fussed myself but it was topic of discussion at school so was interested in other peoples views.
Zone2NorthLondon · 17/09/2022 15:49
At my kids school it’s the children of the alpha mums in the PTA who get picked and get the leading roles etc
Thatiswild · 17/09/2022 13:38
She shouldn’t excluded from having an opportunity because of it nor should she be favoured so it completely depends on how she was chosen. An all rounder sounds perfect for the role!
Summerslam · 17/09/2022 16:05
I work in a place where the big boss's daughter is on the payroll. She gets seconded for training opportunities and helped to further her career because of who her mother is, and not because she is brilliant at the job. Other people working at the same grade aren't offered the same opportunities and it isn't fair.
But life isn't fair.
Learning this a primary school is a good.
Nepotism is rife in a lot of industries.
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Pumperthepumper · 17/09/2022 16:13
Join the PTA then.
Zone2NorthLondon · 17/09/2022 15:49
At my kids school it’s the children of the alpha mums in the PTA who get picked and get the leading roles etc
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