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To think 3 friends having babies within a month is a pregnancy pact?

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CowOverMoon · 15/09/2022 19:45

So I know of 3 women, all in long term relationships, who are due (first child for each of them) within a few weeks of each other. They are a close group and do everything together. Does this seem like a pregnancy pact? Or just very fortuitous timing?

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ParentallyUnprepared · 16/09/2022 17:07

A close friend and I had our boys weeks apart. Completely coincidental.

iklboo · 16/09/2022 17:24

Maybe they all went to the same crossroads at midnight and made a pact with a demon.

ThirtyThreeTrees · 16/09/2022 17:32

Probably just a coincidence.

I'm Irish and the amount of people I know expecting a baby in December is huge.

St Patrick's Day (March 17th) was a double Bank Holiday this year!!!!

DorritLittle · 16/09/2022 17:33

A friend of mine had a baby a week before her best friend. It must have had a lot to do with chance because she was trying for a while. I don't think pregnancy pacts can be a thing!

JustDanceAddict · 16/09/2022 17:39

Myself and a v close friend were due within a couple of weeks of each other. Not planned.
in the end I had an early m/c and she delivered at 36 weeks. I subsequently got pregnant within 3 months and our DCs have grown up together (5 months apart, they are now young adults).

iwishihadaname · 16/09/2022 17:40

my sister in law gave birth in July in august and my other sister in law in September by pure chance

sayanythingelse · 16/09/2022 17:41

One has probably said "we've decided to start TTC" and the others have gone home and said "Ooh Lucy and Matt are trying for a baby, shall we start trying too?". DH has a close family member who always seems to have to get pregnant if someone else does.

That or its coincidence. When I had DD, it seemed like every one of my friends, family members and colleagues were all pregnant. There were babies everywhere.

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