A family member’s ex has been diagnosed with lung cancer. His sister lives in the same street as my parents.
They have fallen out monumentally and she has gone NC. TBH I think it’s 6 of one, half a dozen of the other. He’s a miserable so-and-so, and she is possibly the most bitter person I have ever come across who doesn’t have a good word to say about anyone.
So I recently saw her in the trees and I asked if she’d heard how said ex family member is, and her response was: “dead hopefully.”
Now, I think that there are people whose death might not particularly come as bad news, Fred west, Harold Shipman, someone who has committed a hideous crime.
But is it ever ok to actually wish someone dead? In this instance I think that wishing him dead is a step too. Far, regardless of the circumstances.
AIBU?
Is it ever ok to wish someone dead?
GhostFromTheOtherSide · 15/09/2022 17:58
Am I being unreasonable?
110 votes. Final results.
POLLCustardySergeant · 15/09/2022 18:12
What was she doing in the trees?
MrsTimRiggins · 15/09/2022 18:23
It was a bit unpleasant if you to ask her how this family member is, given you know she is NC. Talk about stirring it.
ParkheadParadise · 15/09/2022 18:31
Yes
I wished the evil bastard who murdered my dd dead.
I seriously thought about getting him done in when he walked free from court. He lived in my hometown in the same street as my sister.
He died 4 yrs later unfortunately no-one murdered him he died of a overdose.
I fucking still HATE him.
Vampirethriller · 15/09/2022 18:42
I wish the man who trafficked me dead, I wish him a slow and painful, undignified, terrifying death.
CaptainCorellisBagpipes · 15/09/2022 19:28
BTW OP, you're a bit late for both Fred West and Harold Shipman - both hanged themselves in prison.
Fred West in his remand cell on 1st January 1995 and Harold Shipman in 2000
Vampirethriller · 15/09/2022 18:42
I wish the man who trafficked me dead, I wish him a slow and painful, undignified, terrifying death.
MessyBunPersonified · 15/09/2022 18:07
Why did you even ask, knowing they are on really bad terms?
What she said is a pretty average response when asked about someone you don't like imo.
You would also be on here writing a post if she had broken down in tears about it I imagine
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