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What is open on Monday 19th Sept?

527 replies

mourningafter · 13/09/2022 15:25

For those of us lucky enough to have the day off with our kids, who don't want to watch the funeral. I would love to hear anyone's idea of how to make the most of a bonus day off. In particular if you know of anything fun that's open.

I'd prefer not to spend the day in the local park, have done that enough in the past 2 years. The only thing I've seen that's open so far is Hawksmoor which is a bit fancy for a family day!

OP posts:
Doingprettywellthanks · 14/09/2022 20:12

Long walk with the children, a good film, bit of cooking - that kind of day.

FourChimneys · 14/09/2022 20:15

I asked in Waitrose earlier if they would be closed all day or whether they would be opening later. (just wanting to plan my shopping).

Closed all day because they stock the Duchy range of food apparently, as a mark of respect.

So closing in order to make less money for Charles? Or is it William now? I haven't been keeping up.

Doingprettywellthanks · 14/09/2022 20:26

Whatafustercluck · 14/09/2022 18:39

11yo ds has made it abundantly clear - he's not remotely interested in watching the funeral. He listens to the news, understands the importance of the ccasion (I was involved in implementing London Bridge and was working all evening when she passed). He doesn't like doing 'sad' things and prefers to switch off, and find something happy that makes him feel positive.

5yo dd isn't interested either. She's got visions of Queen Elsa in her head and anything else is a disappointment I'm sorry to say. Her response was told that people were sad because the Queen had died was "well I'm not sad. It's not as sad as Daisy [her cat] dying".

I don't mean to be disrespectful, and dh and I will watch this historical event first and take the kids for a walk afterwards. But they've already traipsed the Queen's coffin the length of the country and televised every single minute of it. They're live streaming her lying in state now on the BBC. It's all become a bit, well, mawkish. I shed a few tears when she died, as they say around 50% of people did. And I am pleased that places are closing to allow their staff to pay their respects, or use the day, however they see fit. Our children will remember where they were when they heard that the Queen died and don't need to watch the funeral to understand it's an historic event.

And don't even get me started on those people who have dragged their poor kids down to London to queue (in a queue that keeps moving) for 24 hours. They're not doing that for their children but for themselves.

What do you mean by “I was involved in implementing London Bridge”? @Whatafustercluck

Vintagevixen · 14/09/2022 20:34

I will not be watching. I may go out into the streets and shout "up the revolution" at some point!

I am not a monarchist and lost any last remaining traces of respect for the queen as a person when she protected her sex offender son.

I'm bloody annoyed the schools are closing - kids have missed enough school these last few years.

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 20:44

I'm over from Gransnet. Bored fuckless with wall to wall dead queen. Isn't there anything else worth reporting on the news? All these people lapping up subservience. I'm going to be 70 next year, so I was around for her coronation ( as a baby) and I don't think my parents were that interested in her. I'm beyond angry that hospital appointments are cancelled, shops closed, food banks even. For what?? Respect for a rich corpse? Give me a break.!

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 20:48

Well said, vintagevixen!

MissingNashville · 14/09/2022 20:53

Her response was told that people were sad because the Queen had died was "well I'm not sad. It's not as sad as Daisy [her cat] dying".

Love this. She’s right. To her, losing her cat that she saw every day and loved will have been much worse.

I don’t feel sad about the Queen dying. It’s sad for her family but she had a very long life. I have cried for people I don’t know and felt very sad, but they’ve been children/much younger adults that have died because of some sort of tragedy. People trying to enforce grief or certain behaviours on others about the Queens death is really weird.

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 20:59

MissingNashville: I don't feel sad either, just irritated. My father died in June ( died, not passed) and I'm grieving for him because he's my family. I don't know this wealthy person calling herself queen and won't be told to 'show respect' because I despise the monarchy. My grandchildren don't give a stuff either but they'll enjoy a day off school.

antelopevalley · 14/09/2022 21:02

I don't feel sad about the Queen dying. I do not even feel sorry for those who loved her. She was 96 and will have had excellent care until the end. She had at least two of her children visiting every day in her last week. It is a good death.

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 14/09/2022 21:05

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 20:44

I'm over from Gransnet. Bored fuckless with wall to wall dead queen. Isn't there anything else worth reporting on the news? All these people lapping up subservience. I'm going to be 70 next year, so I was around for her coronation ( as a baby) and I don't think my parents were that interested in her. I'm beyond angry that hospital appointments are cancelled, shops closed, food banks even. For what?? Respect for a rich corpse? Give me a break.!

Respect! Republican pensioners are my favourite kind.

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 21:21

Gransnet are mostly pro monarchy. Generalising a bit, I know, but I've read some really irritating crap on some of the threads ( including something about Charles'neck hair, FFS ). It's beyond me what the fuss is all about with this outdated institution and I'm sick of words like 'duty' , 'service' and 'respect' bandied about as if it was a crime to go against the mainstream. It's getting more like a police state daily.

PerfectlyPreservedQuagaarWarrior · 14/09/2022 21:25

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 21:21

Gransnet are mostly pro monarchy. Generalising a bit, I know, but I've read some really irritating crap on some of the threads ( including something about Charles'neck hair, FFS ). It's beyond me what the fuss is all about with this outdated institution and I'm sick of words like 'duty' , 'service' and 'respect' bandied about as if it was a crime to go against the mainstream. It's getting more like a police state daily.

Sounds annoying. I haven't seen anything about Charlie's neck hair on the main MN board, which is a sentence I never thought I'd write, but there've been plenty of demands for respect on here from various self-appointed moral guardians too.

Rowantree2013 · 14/09/2022 21:42

Let them demand. Some of us won't be bullied. This adulation is distracting from real issues. What a gift for the Tories.

SherbetDips · 14/09/2022 21:49

@NovaDeltas I’m under 40 I’ll be watching.

Bridgeth29 · 14/09/2022 22:00

TimBoothseyes · 14/09/2022 19:23

Mine's 30 and chose to work on Monday....she will be cleaning out the Meerkat enclosure during the funeral.

Sorry I didn't mean you, I responding to the original post 🤣

Bridgeth29 · 14/09/2022 22:01

NumptiesIncorporated · 14/09/2022 19:03

Watch the funeral with your kids!

One of them is working, so I'm not sure his employer would be too impressed. I'm not sure what the other one is doing, but if I was going to watch anything with them, it would probably be Taskmaster. There's a new season starting soon and we haven't finished the last one yet.

Again, sorry I didn't mean you, I was responding to the original post!

Chessie678 · 14/09/2022 22:09

The economic cost of closing the country down for a day must be colossal. I know several small business owners (nursery, dog care and cafe) who feel forced into closing and will lose thousands. I find that really distasteful, particularly given the current economic situation.

I can't comprehend the idea of grieving for someone you don't know though I have nothing in particular against the queen. I can understand people being a bit sad or feeling that it is the end of an era (or watching the funeral as a form of entertainment) but "grief"? I don't really see it as all that "historic" either. It was always inevitable that the queen would die at some point. She will be replaced by someone who will fulfil the same role, which is essentially as a figurehead who carries out some ceremonial duties with no significant political power. I don't think it has the historical significance of the war in Ukraine or covid pandemic for example.

And I don't understand why people should have some sort of right to watch the funeral either. People don't even have the right to take time off for the deaths of close friends in most cases. I've gone to work on the day an aunt died and when a close friend died because I had to.

Toddler and baby will be going to the park again (unless the council have taped off the swings again as a symbol of "respect"). I might watch a few minutes of the funeral later on iplayer but am so annoyed by the whole thing that I'm not sure I want any part of it.

WhiteFire · 14/09/2022 22:25

My dentist is still open, so I'll be there as planned.

Grendalsmum · 14/09/2022 23:04

Hey OP The visitor attraction where l work is open - l've pm'ed you.

NumptiesIncorporated · 15/09/2022 04:43

Again, sorry I didn't mean you, I was responding to the original post!

That really didn't come across, given that it was page 19 of the thread and you didn't address op specifically. But just to balance this up:

Op, go out and have a lovely day with your children.

The world is a really strange place. As a teenager, I wasn't allowed to go to my grandmother's funeral as it wasn't seen as appropriate. But apparently now it's ok for people to sit their children down and to make them watch the funeral of someone else's grandmother. I'm sure plenty of people will have things to say about what people wear and how they behave. And somehow some people think the disrespectful thing is to not gawp at the grieving family.

Doingprettywellthanks · 15/09/2022 08:24

Grendalsmum · 14/09/2022 23:04

Hey OP The visitor attraction where l work is open - l've pm'ed you.

I reckon you’ll be busy!!

Beezknees · 15/09/2022 08:56

My local Dominos is opening.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 15/09/2022 11:36

LetMeSpeak · 13/09/2022 15:53

Because OPs hatred for the Queen is much stronger than allowing her children to learn. Allowing them to take such a good opportunity like this to watch history take place in real time.

Hatred for the queen? That's an unfounded and completely ridiculous comment.

ImJustMadAboutSaffron · 15/09/2022 11:44

onlythreenow · 13/09/2022 20:13

So you expect other people to work so you and your family can enjoy a "bonus day off" Hmm

The OP doesn't say that anywhere. She's asking what's open, so that if something is she can take the kids and if not plan something else.

Where has she said she expects places to be open? I didn't realise just how much some posters attribute words and sentiments to other posters that they've not said or expressed until it happened to me.

This is another example.

NerrSnerr · 15/09/2022 13:13

Our local climbing centre is open they've just confirmed. No music and no cooked food in the cafe but all courses etc running as normal (I doubt any are scheduled during the funeral).