I saw a similar thread on here , I’m significantly younger than that posted tho. I’m 27.
with her for about 2 years before.
My best friend is really starting to annoy me. I’ve known her for ten years.
Her way of relating to life is very different from mine but lately she has changed because she started taking Prozac and idk what happened. She’s become a lot more anxious than usual, a lot more clingy; and I don’t like this new version of her.
She’s always been
the calmer one. I’ve always been the anxiety ridden one.
And then what really makes me mad is how uppity she acts sometimes.
She lives at home, I do too. Her parents are super rich, I’m middle class. She has everything paid for basically and just works cuz she wants pocket money. I need to actually work to pay off my own bills because were not rich and my mom is a single mom (my dad died). It’s hard not to compare our lives . I know I shouldn’t. But she has just had it way easier in life and sometimes it really gets to me.
She is obsessed with getting married. I’ve had a few relationships that ended badly, she hasn’t had any relationships and she wants one very badly. It gives me the ick so bad. I don’t think girls should be despo for a man ever, in her life. I get that you wanna get married I do too, but she really goes on rants and it depresses me. I don’t like comparing my life to others but she makes it hard not to. I stopped going on Instagram for this reason and I told her to stay away from IG if she doesn’t wanna feel like this but she doesn’t listen.
I guess I’m a lot more harder than her because life has given me the short end of the stick compared to her life. So whenevr she complains about something money related or anything really I just roll my eyes in my head so hard.
For example her dad paid her way through college with no loans. I had to take out student loans and I had pell grant for one year. I got the student loan forgiveness from Biden and it feels like she got jealous of that (?)
We were both employed at one company for a while. They laid
me off and kept her on, she got a promotion.
She’s a really hard worker so I give her that.
But she has REALLY CHANGED. After taking Prozac. She is this bubbly person who has anxiety now. I’m not used to it, she’s never been like that. She over thinks everything now.
We’ve been texting everyday this week and today she asks me why I’m being so quiet ? Dude I have a job and we’ve texted every day multiple times a day.
We’re meeting up tomorrow and she has already asked if we can get brunch in the next couple of weeks!!!
I’m lowkey hating this. I don’t like this.
I’m 27F she’s 27F.
I know I shouldn’t compare our lives because I have things in my life she doesn’t have. But it’s so hard not to be bitter. Some people are truly lucky people.