So a woman on my street who I've previously got on really well with has hit my car and caused a bit of damage. She was annoyed at the time but she backed into my car and there were witnesses so she couldn't really deny blame. Initially she said she would pay for it and said she had a relative who could do the work, however the relative hasn't shown up after weeks of back and forth and now I'm starting to doubt the relative exists. I took the car to get a quote and told her the cost and now she's not replying. How long do I give her to come up with the money? The last thing I want is to make it awkward with someone I live a few doors down from and I know money is probably tight for her especially at the minute so want to be fair, but at the same time I would like the car fixed. Its not off the road with the damage or anything but just has a big dent at the front and green paint scrapes all over it. What would you do?
AIBU?
Am I being unreasonable?
195 votes. Final results.
POLLLavender14 · 08/09/2022 08:50
So she asked specifically not to go through the insurance at the start, and because we've been friendly I didn't doubt for a second that she'd pay but now it's been a few weeks- could I get in trouble for not having told my insurance at the time? As I said it's not a super urgent job and with the quote given, if it were me I'd just pay it instead of having a claim on my insurance and my premium going up. So that's why I want to be reasonable because she's not said she won't pay just hasn't committed to paying either. Question im stuck on is how long would you give her to come up with the money?
Lavender14 · 08/09/2022 08:50
So she asked specifically not to go through the insurance at the start, and because we've been friendly I didn't doubt for a second that she'd pay but now it's been a few weeks- could I get in trouble for not having told my insurance at the time? As I said it's not a super urgent job and with the quote given, if it were me I'd just pay it instead of having a claim on my insurance and my premium going up. So that's why I want to be reasonable because she's not said she won't pay just hasn't committed to paying either. Question im stuck on is how long would you give her to come up with the money?
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