If you can't have it all at the same time, what is the thing you're currently missing out on?

[MacNCheeeeese]

I read on here often that you can have it all but not at the same time. So I just wondered what part of it "all" it is that people are currently missing out on in their lives?

tenderness. art.
stimulating conversations (about art).
could do with more laughter too

I'm not missing one whole big section, just little bits of each if that makes sense?

Family: I live with my children as a single parent. They spend time with their dads too. Don't live close to other family unfortunately.

Time: I get alone-time and can pursue hobbies but at the expense of housework etc

Career: my job is okay and I love the small team. It's not thrilling but I don't dread Mondays

Health: pretty good health. A mental health problem but it's not terrible. Can find time to do the exercise I enjoy although it's a bit of a push!

Love: lovely boyfriend, spend time together mainly weekends.

My main problem is feeling I rush about too much so I think I'd like a little more time.

Time for myself and my hobbies.
Work part time but in a senior level role, 2 kids under 3, a house i love but no cleaning help, an husband also working part time so often around.

But i have no time for my hobbies, my projects and to exercise. I miss my evening runs and my journaling.

Friends, I don't really have any.
I have a good job, money, baby, a home, family, love, my health. But I can't quite master having proper friend, even one would do, not even a group of friends!

Exercise
time with the kids a bit - I used to work much more part time before Covid but DH lost his very high paid job so I now work FT as he works his way back up in a new career (on half the salary). They are older primary so it is do-able, but it is a juggle. Also money due to DH’s previous fab salary and now ok salary

Work/life balance. High powered role, very good money, spent the last week of DD's school holidays working 26 hours out of the 32 hours annual leave I had booked.

(Am looking for a new job though)

Friends/social life for me.

I do have friends, I just don’t see them as often as I’d like to. They mostly live in my hometown, or in the city where I used to work. I don’t have any local friends and I’d love to change that!

I have pretty much everything else I could want:

Wonderful marriage
Close relationships with family
A job I mostly enjoy, and pays well
A good fitness routine
Hobbies
A beautiful dog
No DC (I don’t plan to have them)

Freedom
Career

Sleep
Time to myself
Work
Family nearby
Friends

We moved just before the pandemic to an area we don't know at all and wanted to try for a family as time was of the essence.

I have a gorgeous son and lovely husband with a steady job but I am completely on my own every day for 10hours plus with a toddler who can't quite speak yet. Trying to meet people is SO hard even with parent and toddler groups etc!

Haven't seen a single one of my friends in over a year as they're all miles away and spread far and wide.

Energy - I have everything I ever wanted (good career, kids, friends to meet up with) really, but by the time I've run around doing it all, I'm knackered!

A good quality nights sleep now my fantasy brilliant sex never had it.

Exercise and sleep (related).
Everything else going fine.