Well, one of my three DC - so I needed 15 lunches not 10 - is dairy free, so not pesto or cheese (DF anything was £££ even just 2 years ago, not so much any more with supermarkets having their own versions now and I’m yet to find a DF cheese my DC will eat!).
Certain crisps not allowed (basically no fried crisps which rules out most of the cheap ones).
Cereal bars not allowed.
Jam or chocolate spread sandwiches not allowed.
Biscuits not allowed.
Example
Tuna pasta with sweet corn, cucumber and tomatoes OR ham/cheese sandwich with cucumber and tomatoes OR pasta/pesto - quite often I had to make two separate lunches to accommodate DF child so again, extra work.
DF yogurts which were £2.50 for 4, so £5 a week so she could have them over the weekend as a snack. Frubes or similar for the other two.
Two pieces of fruit - one as a snack which I had to provide.
Baked fucking crisps and making sure one lot was DF.
Small side salad each - lettuce, peppers, cucumber, tomato, etc.
Some form of snack/pudding thing, I’ve blocked that from my memory because between having a DF child and bullshit rules it was stressful.
Between waking up at 5:30am to get us out the door at 7:30am, drop them off and myself on the bus at 8am for a 60 min commute, feeling lucky if I had a 30 min gap between lectures and labs once that day, getting home at 6:15pm, then having to cook something fast to feed them as they wouldn’t eat at wrap around as it was all bread based, then reading/homework, bath, bedtime routine - 8:30pm.
By which point my Elvanse has long worn off, I’ve been on the go for 15 hours, I’ve got to clean up from dinner, make their lunches, get myself fed and in the shower (I have Coeliac so again, another dietary ballache), shove a load of laundry in, sort out my notes from that day, check my timetable and bag for the next day, I wasn’t getting to bed till 11:30pm. Paying for school dinners meant I could go to bed at 10:30pm.
No it wouldn’t take an NT person an hour to do lunches but I was fucking fried and the amount of effort it took to think about what to make then make it, after a month I’d had enough. I had exams to revise for, coursework to do - which all has to be done outside the 8-6 Mon-Fri childcare because that’s taken up with travel and lectures/labs.
Stating that packed lunches are cheaper and easier comes from a privileged point of view.
Partners, part time work, time to faff around, no disabilities.