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To not understand the threshold for free school meals?

170 replies

AllTheBloodyWashing · 04/09/2022 21:10

I am a lone parent to 11 year old twins who are starting secondary school this week.
I work part time and earn under £16000pa
and get a top-of universal credit, I applied for free school meals for my dc but it has come back and I have been declined.

I’m honestly so upset and really don’t know how I’m going to cope with this extra payment each week for my dc to eat at school, I’m barely scraping by as it is and have just used my last £20 to top-up their dinner cards so they can at least have something for the next two days.

so aibu to not really get the threshold for it, when so many families are really struggling at the moment.

OP posts:
whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:33

TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 04/09/2022 21:20

I only found out the threshold a few weeks ago, on here, I was shocked. I was more shocked considering I know how many kids at the local senior school get PP. loads of them, how can their families be coping in under £7400 Anywhere, but especially when this is an expensive area to live in! (SE)

the threshold is little untrue though

my income from benefits amounts to £340 a week and £25 a week CMS and my son gets FSM and always has

whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:36

no help with uniform that stopped years ago but i find that ok to afford

HipsterCoffeeShop · 04/09/2022 21:36

PicaK · 04/09/2022 21:30

It's worth noting that if you do at any point qualify for FSM then stop qualifying the children still receive the FSM allowance for 6 more years under the EVER 6 FSM funding.

No they don't.

But under transitional arrangements for FSM until UC rollout is fully complete any children currently eligible for FSM will continue to be eligible regardless of any change in circumstances until March 2024 (it was March 2023 but then Covid happened).

The Ever6 measure is for Pupil Premium only (alongside LAC & service children).

HesSoFuckingHot · 04/09/2022 21:39

Lots of children at my child’s secondary school take a packed lunch OP, sometimes to avoid the queue but I’m sure cost must be an issue for many families. My son used to buy lunch for a about £3 a day but my daughter prefers to take something from home as do most of her friends. It’ll be much cheaper for you and they won’t be the only ones if our school is anything to go by.

£7400 is so low, too low in my opinion, that’s really shocked me.

ItsJustLittleOlMe · 04/09/2022 21:40

whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:33

the threshold is little untrue though

my income from benefits amounts to £340 a week and £25 a week CMS and my son gets FSM and always has

So if your income from working is over £7400, you don't get FSM, but if it's over £7400 from benefits, you do get FSM's?

whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:42

i have no idea but my 2 eldest got them,well primary they didnt like so i made them pack lunches but senior it was canteen so they had that and took anything from home if they wanted

but yeah its not quitewhat i say's

KweenieBeanz · 04/09/2022 21:43

Buying lunch is a luxury. We have a high household income but the kids take packed lunches because they are far better value for money and you can make them much healthier. Couple of rolls with some ham in can cost as little as 60 or 70p, crisps cost pennies, fruit can be 30p. A bar from a multipack maybe 25p.

SunnyD44 · 04/09/2022 21:44

It’s rubbish that you don’t qualify for FSM but if you can I would pack them a lunch as the school meals I’ve come across are crap and pretty expensive!

In primary they get a proper meal and pudding.

I see teens walking around with a slice of pizza or burger as their lunch.
For the same cost they could have a much healthier, more filling packed lunch.

If you’ve got twins then school dinners would not be affordable at all.

Wickywickyyow · 04/09/2022 21:46

loudlylikealion · 04/09/2022 21:30

That is ridiculously low. How are so many people qualifying for this? How many hours a week is that at NMW?

Just to be clear, I didn't make the rules! I just goggled it for the OP. Getting a lot of angry responses to my post.

5zeds · 04/09/2022 21:46

Mine had packed lunches most of the time y7/8/9 because they preferred it. I think lots do. Eggs for breakfast and food When they get in. Flapjacks rather than crisps/choc fill gaps and mine like them.

Overthebow · 04/09/2022 21:47

Can't you do pack lunches for less than £5 per day?

WeAreAllLionesses · 04/09/2022 21:48

PicaK · 04/09/2022 21:30

It's worth noting that if you do at any point qualify for FSM then stop qualifying the children still receive the FSM allowance for 6 more years under the EVER 6 FSM funding.

@PicaK no it's not, it's pupil premium not free school meals.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 04/09/2022 21:48

Lots of secondary schools do a set meal of £2.50 main and pudding. They can take their water bottles.

It's shit that 16kpa isn't classed as in need of fsm. When you add all the top ups, what is your monthly income?

HesSoFuckingHot · 04/09/2022 21:48

Wickywickyyow · 04/09/2022 21:46

Just to be clear, I didn't make the rules! I just goggled it for the OP. Getting a lot of angry responses to my post.

It’s all your fault! 😜 I think people are just shocked.

InChocolateWeTrust · 04/09/2022 21:48

That is ridiculously low. How are so many people qualifying for this? How many hours a week is that at NMW?

Essentially the children getting it come from homes where there is no parent working full time.

It's about 16h a week at NMW.

whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:48

not being funny but it was similar when my son went to a college to do his Alevels 20 miles away he was entitled to help with thavel,bus and train though i paid towards that and books;equipment etc and the canteen

my income was higher than now as i had 3 dependants now only one but it does seem that they only take certain things into concideration

but i know thats not much help when you cant get them and others do,im just being honest

JanglyBeads · 04/09/2022 21:49

Claiming FSM puts you on the Pupil Premium Register (for the next six years after your claim stops) though, so it's the same thing.

InChocolateWeTrust · 04/09/2022 21:51

So if your income from working is over £7400, you don't get FSM, but if it's over £7400 from benefits, you do get FSM's?

It would appear so, which is mad.

abovedecknotbelow · 04/09/2022 21:52

I was shocked that the limit for Dts is £6 a day, £60 a week. We're relatively high earning, can't do it. They're having packed lunch.

VerifiedBot2351 · 04/09/2022 21:53

In my experience as a teacher, it tends to only be the free school meal children who buy food at school because others just can’t afford it. We have one child and we cannot afford to buy school dinners for him, so he takes a packed lunch.

Teand · 04/09/2022 21:53

Just because it's under that threshold doesn't mean that's all the family have. It doesn't include any benefits you get. You could not work and get more than 7k a year in benefits and still get FSM. It's an income from working that goes to that threshold.

FatAgainItsLettuceTime · 04/09/2022 21:54

www.gov.uk/apply-free-school-meals

Your child may be able to get free school meals if you get any of the following:
• Income Support
• income-based Jobseeker’s Allowance
• income-related Employment and Support Allowance
• support under Part VI of the Immigration and Asylum Act 1999
• the guaranteed element of Pension Credit
• Child Tax Credit (provided you’re not also entitled to Working Tax Credit and have an annual gross income of no more than £16,190)
• Working Tax Credit run-on - paid for 4 weeks after you stop qualifying for Working Tax Credit
• Universal Credit - if you apply on or after 1 April 2018 your household income must be less than £7,400 a year (after tax and not including any benefits you get)
Children who get paid these benefits directly, instead of through a parent or guardian, can also get free school meals.
Your child may also get free school meals if you get any of these benefits and your child is both:
• younger than the compulsory age for starting schooll_
• in full-time education
If your child is eligible for free school meals, they’ll remain eligible until they finish the phase of schooling (primary or secondary) they’re in on 31 March 2023.

whatsthestory123 · 04/09/2022 21:56

Teand · 04/09/2022 21:53

Just because it's under that threshold doesn't mean that's all the family have. It doesn't include any benefits you get. You could not work and get more than 7k a year in benefits and still get FSM. It's an income from working that goes to that threshold.

your spot on and explained it well
it's some times hard to understand

Mumofsend · 04/09/2022 21:58

siblingrevelryagain · 04/09/2022 21:28

I was the same-it was explained that for the purposes of school dinners the benefits were classed as income (so it isn’t based on the £7,400 but the total once benefits added)

Packed lunches will be cheaper and probably healthier (and my boys say the queues for hot lunches are long and there’s nowhere to sit, so you lose all your lunch break!).

buy cheapest multipack crisps (around £1 for 6 packets), buy bread/rolls reduced and make up sandwiches and freeze, so you can take advantage of offers (just don’t add salad or mayo before freezing. Cheese/peanut butter/ham work well). Refillable bottle of water plus a biscuit of some description and a piece of fruit (or you could buy the frozen cocktail sausage rolls from a supermarket-usually bags of 50; bake them when you’re using your oven for something else. Freeze in 3/4 portion bags)

It isn't based on wages + benefits. Just earned income.