I've nc'd for this as I'm so embarrassed. My partner has forgotten my 25th birthday today. I confronted him about an hour ago and said have you forgotten and he was very apologetic and sorry. Said he's never missed a birthday before with previous partners (he's older than me and has had lots of girlfriends) and that's what hurts the most I think- the fact that it's just me he's ever forgot. He says it's no reflection of how he feels for me, that he loves me etc. We're shy of one year together so last year he gave me birthday gifts early September as we hadn't physically met by my birthday. I didn't even want gifts per se, just a thoughtful card and a 'happy birthday'. We live together, I reminded him last week but he's still forgot. I don't know what to make of it. AIBU to be upset?
AIBU?
zingally · 29/08/2022 12:04
You've been together less than a year... If he's not now practically crawling on his knees for forgiveness, and putting together something really great for you now... Then I'd LTB.
heforgot · 29/08/2022 15:31
He did apologise profusely and said he will get me something soon. We've not done anything today as he's not well (bad cold) but obviously should've sorted a card before today. I confronted him on the comments about never missing other birthdays and he said he has forgotten other peoples birthdays before.
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