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To judge parents who vape

84 replies

Hancock9 · 29/08/2022 11:42

Surely once you become a parent you stop these things?

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MuchTooTired · 29/08/2022 19:15

I vape, having given up smoking 55 days ago after smoking for best part of 20 years. I also have 4 year old twins. At the minute, my life is shit enough and I’m trying really hard not to start smoking cigarettes again. Vaping I thought was ‘better’ than smoking?

Sure, it would be best if I’d not started smoking, but it’s a bit late for that now. I hope to quit the vape one day, but for now I’ll keep puffing it until I feel ready to stop vaping and Life seems better. I’m not too bothered about being judged by strangers - I’m used to it.

justfiveminutes · 29/08/2022 19:16

Drivebye · 29/08/2022 19:08

Parents can do what they like, each to their own. However I do think in about 10 years time the shit is going to hit the fan. I simply cannot understand his people think vaping chemicals directly into your mouth and lungs is safe. I'm also a massive snob and think vaping is as common as fuck, shoving a bit of plastic in your mouth every 5 seconds - yeuch.

But don't most people vape instead of smoking? If the chemicals and common plastic are better than a cigarette then I can tolerate them I think.

girlmom21 · 29/08/2022 19:16

What else are we supposed to stop when we become parents?

I don't smoke or vape but as long as they're not done in close proximity to the child I don't understand the issue.

LangClegsInSpace · 29/08/2022 19:19

Well done @MuchTooTired Flowers

Yes, it's much, much better than smoking.

BuenoSucia · 29/08/2022 19:21

The trouble with vapes is that I know nobody wants to smell my cherry chocolate bomb - so I just filled the cartridge with crack crystals, now everyone’s happy.

CPL593H · 29/08/2022 19:22

lll3333 · 29/08/2022 18:53

I've seen what vapes do to your lungs. They literally fill with wax. You're breathing in liquid wax. I don't understand why they're not banned. One day there will be an outcry.

Have you got any kind of proof? Because every doctor I've spoken to re vaping wasn't saying this.

Tinktravels · 29/08/2022 19:22

Yabu. But I'm interested on why you think this

Ilovelurchers · 29/08/2022 19:23

What about parents who drink alcohol? Ruins more lives than vaping!

(For the record I don't judge parents who do either of these things. I vape and sometimes - shock horror - smoke, and my child knows this! As she knows I am imperfect in manifold other ways too).

BeanieTeen · 29/08/2022 19:24

YANBU, you can judge what you like. YABU if you think you’re judgement matters an ounce.

Frazzlefrazle · 29/08/2022 19:24

No one is perfect.

Your fall front your high horse is going to hurt quite a lot.

CPL593H · 29/08/2022 19:25

MuchTooTired · 29/08/2022 19:15

I vape, having given up smoking 55 days ago after smoking for best part of 20 years. I also have 4 year old twins. At the minute, my life is shit enough and I’m trying really hard not to start smoking cigarettes again. Vaping I thought was ‘better’ than smoking?

Sure, it would be best if I’d not started smoking, but it’s a bit late for that now. I hope to quit the vape one day, but for now I’ll keep puffing it until I feel ready to stop vaping and Life seems better. I’m not too bothered about being judged by strangers - I’m used to it.

I'm 10 years without a cigarette, having been 40 a day from my teens to 49. Really hoping it goes as well for you Flowers

catandcoffee · 29/08/2022 19:25

Hancock9 · 29/08/2022 11:42

Surely once you become a parent you stop these things?

Yes and they need to stop having a glass of Wine too....and sex in case the children hear them 🙄

CPL593H · 29/08/2022 19:25

Sorry, should have said only able to do it because vaping.

Ilovemycatalot · 29/08/2022 19:27

Could not give a flying fuck if you or others judge me for being a parent that vapes. Better go and finish polishing up that halo of yours.

whatsthestory123 · 29/08/2022 19:31

i smoked for years till i was taken ill with clots on my lungs,never had a puff of a ciggy from that daybut do vape now

my consultant has said the NHS does not consider vaping as smoking and my GP is happy i vape instead of ciggy's

op did you know some hospitals have been doing trials to have vape vending machines in hospitals,that should set you in a spin

i dont drink but am not offeneded if others do

Floofboopsnootandbork · 29/08/2022 19:33

Annieisalright · 29/08/2022 18:51

YANBU

But then again I judge people for a lot more than that

Only on MN do people pretend to never judge anyone for anything

I don’t pretend to not judge people, actually I’m a massive fucking bitch 😂 but I do it in my head or privately with DP (who is also a huge bitch) or my friends in a lighthearted jokey way as I know not everyone thinks the same things I do and we all live life differently. The only time I openly, publicly, or loudly judge anyone is when it’s for things that actually deserve to be judged.

Sideorderofchips · 29/08/2022 19:34

Be back soon. Trying to work out if I give a shit about your opinion

BabyDreamers · 29/08/2022 19:35

I've found myself judging people who smoke because it stinks and kills you.

Shmithecat2 · 29/08/2022 19:42

Hancock9 · 29/08/2022 11:42

Surely once you become a parent you stop these things?

Oh, give over.

70billionthnamechange · 29/08/2022 19:49

Piss off

BuenoSucia · 29/08/2022 19:52

BabyDreamers · 29/08/2022 19:35

I've found myself judging people who smoke because it stinks and kills you.

Bet you a million quid you’re gonna die!

isadoradancing123 · 29/08/2022 19:53

Well i am sure they judge you for lots of this

MaryHoldTheCandleSteadyWhileIShaveTheChickensLeg · 29/08/2022 19:54

BabyDreamers · 29/08/2022 19:35

I've found myself judging people who smoke because it stinks and kills you.

Do you judge all addicts?

mummytobabyboyx · 29/08/2022 19:59

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Hancock9 · 29/08/2022 20:06

Sorry but who would actually sniff coke of their child’s book bag?! Come on now

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