Sil teaching Dd bad words

[Sunbehindtheclouds]

Does anyone else find this just bloody odd. Sil thinking it’s funny to teach Dd, only 4, to be rough and tell people to leave her alone/get lost etc and laughing when Dd gets all riled up and overstimulated and hitting and shouting at Dh and I?
Deliberately laughing when she does *naughty/challenging things, would you do that?

@Boxofsockss Who does that, it wasn’t even funny, just really annoying

What 2% think I’m being unreasonable, why 🙈🤷🏻‍♀️🤣

You’re the mother, if you’re there and she does it again speak up, Tell her to stop, it isn’t funny or a joke. Don’t rely on others to do it for you.

@Thinkingblonde Yes, I def would if it were to happen again. I know they’d see me as being uptight though and would probably say it’s just a joke

She sounds horrible. She obviously get some kind of sick pleasure out of tormenting a child.
I hate adults teasing kids.
Don’t let others influence your parenting. They can think what they like, it’s not them who will be calming a distressed 4 year old after Aunty Windup has caused a furore.