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Or is this inappropriate for a summer camp?

198 replies

Herewegoagain84 · 20/08/2022 10:21

My five year old has been going for a few days here and there over the summer to a day camp based at a school - well known company - seems to really enjoy it. This morning she mentioned that a few days ago they did “lockdown training” and she had to hide under a desk. She has been asking questions about what a lockdown is etc. We are in London.

Considering I don’t think this has been introduced in schools / we don’t have the same record as the US in this country, AIBU that this was an inappropriate “activity” to do with a group of five year olds? I want to call them to discuss it, as if they planned this I think it should have been brought to the attention of parents. If they did it as a game, I think that’s even weirder?

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picklemewalnuts · 20/08/2022 10:24

It's started to become a thing, having an emergency protocol. It's like fire drills. My son's secondary school had them, 5/10 years ago. I wouldn't know about primary's as mine are too old!

Hiddenvoice · 20/08/2022 10:24

Personally I would phone and just politely ask what happened. It might be a game or even another child has asked something and the leaders thought it was best to show a demonstration but I agree it’s very odd to be doing this. As you say, this isn’t a part of our education and they shouldn’t be sharing that to young children without adults being made aware.

Sprogletsmum2 · 20/08/2022 10:25

It is absolutely a thing in schools. I don't like that they do them but imagine if it was needed and they didn't know what to do or expect.

ballonsinhightrees · 20/08/2022 10:26

It is in this country though...we are in Home Counties and for the last 10 years teenager has been practicing lockdown drills and as a teacher we have them in my school.
It is definitely a thing.

FourEyesGood · 20/08/2022 10:26

I’m a UK secondary school teacher and we’ve been doing lockdown drills (getting under desks and staying quiet until the alarm stops ringing) for a couple of years now. Sadly it’s normal.

Babyshadows · 20/08/2022 10:26

I wouldn't be against them doing it as such but I would expect that you'd have been told BEFORE it happened so that you are ready for the questions that will inevitably come up

Hillsidehigh · 20/08/2022 10:26

Has been a thing in schools for a while now so not inappropriate at all

Marmite27 · 20/08/2022 10:27

It’s not necessarily to do with guns, there are other threats in this country such as someone with a knife, bomb or biological weapon.

Emergency drills are required and are appropriate.

ArnoldBee · 20/08/2022 10:27

They do it in schools at least once a year so it is appropriate.

SheWoreYellow · 20/08/2022 10:27

I think it’s odd and I’d brush it off as ‘in case of earthquakes, which don’t really happen here, but just so a lampshade doesn’t fall on you’.
I would check with the organisers though. It seems to be a bit OTT. Maybe they’re following a US activity list.

SheWoreYellow · 20/08/2022 10:28

ArnoldBee · 20/08/2022 10:27

They do it in schools at least once a year so it is appropriate.

Not in our school.

Whatwouldscullydo · 20/08/2022 10:29

We got an email from my dds primary school letting us know they were doing it. So you should have been pre warned i think. But yes its normal now. Along side fire drills.

sunflowerdaisyrose · 20/08/2022 10:29

My children do it at school and are told it's in case there's an animal lose in the playground and they have to stay in their classrooms for a while while they help it! They don't hide under desks but they all have to be in classrooms with doors and windows shut/locked and wait for an all clear signal. It wouldn't bother me they're practicing.

We had to do it when I was a child in real life as a long estranged mum came into school with a knife trying to get her child.

Saisong · 20/08/2022 10:30

My kids at secondary have done lockdown drills. They do explain to kids in a sensitive manner (might be due to wind/weather or gas escape, not just mad gunmen), they also inform parents so they can deal with questions though.
Don't recall at primary other than fire drills though.

MyCatIsAFuckwit · 20/08/2022 10:31

Yes, this drill takes place in the UK primary school where I work.
Every bit as important as a fire drill.

Newusernameaug · 20/08/2022 10:31

I wouldn’t be happy with that at all!
the kids are on summer camp - it’s meant to be a holiday and escapism not fear Mo getting the poor children

PuttingDownRoots · 20/08/2022 10:32

DDs had Earthquake drills. And were aware of lockdown procedure for terrorist events.

They were completely unfazed by the Armed guards around their school after it was identified as a possible target as well... they were 3&4 at the time. It was a novelty fir a few days.

In the UK we forget how fortunate we are sometimes. But "lockdown" can be a thing in UK schools too. Just unlikely to be guns.... when I was teaching it was pupils spoiling for a fight (or from other schools gaining access)

fufflecake · 20/08/2022 10:32

Seems fair enough. Are you near any nuclear bases etc

AtomicBlondeRose · 20/08/2022 10:34

They do this in my DC’s village primary - they said it was in case of an emergency- the examples were the church next door goes on fire, an air ambulance needs to land on the field or a dog comes into school! So it wasn’t a scary thing for them at all.

Damnautocorrect · 20/08/2022 10:35

Another one whose children have done lockdown drills from infants up.

sadly needed, sadly normal.

we aren’t london either.

startfresh · 20/08/2022 10:35

www.manchestereveningnews.co.uk/news/greater-manchester-news/breaking-police-called-reports-man-24505144.amp

Definitely hope my dc learn how to cope. People can still get knives, guns in this country. They can also make other weapons as mentioned by PP.

Iamnotthe1 · 20/08/2022 10:37

Primary teacher here. We run evacuation and invacuation drills at various points across the year. We explain the full lockdown procedure to the children (at age-appropriate levels), as well as the various alternatives, but don't run this as a drill.

Hillsidehigh · 20/08/2022 10:38

So if something did happen you’d rather they didn’t know what to do ?

KyaClark · 20/08/2022 10:40

I honestly had no idea this happened in our schools. Interesting.

Herewegoagain84 · 20/08/2022 10:40

I think the difference is she’s 5. Secondary school is understandable. Her age group needs age appropriate explanation / procedure, which I don’t necessarily think would have been delivered by the camp leaders (who are young adults wanting summer work). She has had a lot if questions and was unsettled by it, which is why I don’t think it was handled well.

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